Dear Betty, 

I love to keep my pussy bare. I shave it regularly to keep it silky smooth. I strip my clothes off as soon as I get home from work. I hate clothes and clean my house in the nude. I never wear panties which is a turn on for my husband.

Hi Betty,

I used to cringe at the word "cunt" but now, with the help of some gentlemen friends, I find it a sexy term for the most feminine part of my body. As a young girl it was to pee, as I reached and went through puberty it caused me pain and pleasure and during my married life it was more frustration then enjoyment.

A few years ago I stepped out on my own and experimented with life and lust. I have learned to enjoy myself and my body and how to share the pleasures I have found with others.

Dear Betty,

Throughout most of my adolescence and early teen years, I was really self conscience about my fuller pussy lips. If I would "fool" around with guys, I dreaded them putting their hands down my pants, figuring they would think that it was gross or weird. I started to look at porn and other X rated material at about age 17 and I couldn't help but notice that most of the porn stars had cute little pussies with tiny little lips and that just made my situation all the more worse. I felt like a freak!!

Dear Betty,

I am a 34 years old married woman and have always been shy and ashamed of my huge pussy lips. Even my 15 years old duaghter told me a few months ago, "Mother don't wear those tight jeans 'cause your pussy is big and everybody notices it." That became the perfect moment for some cunt positive sex-ed between my daughter and me becuase I now have a new attitude myself about my cunt.

Dear Betty (my essay),

I think most women, and probably quite a few men, fantasize about posing for nude photographs. Until recently the nearest I came to fulfilling my fantasy was when I was 19 - my boyfriend wanted to take some topless photos of me but I insisted on keeping my nipples covered (mainly because I didn't quite trust him not to show the pictures to his friends).

Dear Betty Darling,

Dear Dr. Betty:

Your focus on celebrating the female genitals and encouraging women to send pictures of themselves makes your website very unique. Here is a recent photo taken by a pro who happens to be one of my lovers. He gave me an ever bigger copy and I have it framed over my bed. It makes me happy everyday.

Dear Betty,

I love to visit your Website. There is so much valuable sex information available everywhere on the site. The Erotic Art Gallery is a great idea and inspired me to send a photo of my pussy, which I have attached to this email.

I am 24, married two years, and love to masturbate. I started to masturbate when I was nine yours old and by eighteen I did it daily or more. When I started to have sex with penetration, I found that a lot of guys were hooked on fucking and didn't like me to masturbate-- like they weren't good enough lovers or something.

I don't know why but I hate the word pussy. I prefer cunt because it sounds strong, even a little fierce - like that ancient Celtic female symbol called a Shelah-na-gig which was often carved of stone and showed a woman spreading her labia wide enough to take in the world. And she looked like she meant it! That's how I feel when I'm in heat, when my mons and labia double in size and I actually feel like I have a boner.