On March 31, 2007 I honored my Beloved by having his initials, in the shape of a heart, tattooed permanently on my left inner labia. I did it as a sign of commitment and as a way of blessing our union.

At the time, we were very involved in BDSM and exploring the D/s relationship dynamics.

What makes my story even more unique, perhaps, is that I am a 50-year-old woman, who just happens to have multiple personalities.

The personality that was so strongly drawn to the experience of being a submissive in a contractual D/s relationship is known as Precious.

Dear Betty,
Thank you so much for displaying your genital gallery, here is my own submission. I so thoroughly enjoyed browsing this great variety of photographs, it made me feel so accepting of myself and at peace with my own body.

I've been enjoying your website now for quite a while and recently came to the conclusion that it was about time to join your group. I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments regarding masturbation. As a regular devotee since I was about 10 years of age I can say from experience that it has give n me much pleasure and satisfaction during good times and bad.

The Bodysex workshop in Copenhagen was one thing but a private session with an African woman who'd been circumcised was another. I wasn't sure if I was ready. I wasn't sure if I could bring anything to the session at all. The worst part: I'd been after Betty for several months to agree to it. After meeting Sylvie from Clitoraid, I had begged and pleaded for Betty to do a free private session with a circumcised woman before her surgery with Dr.

I love my vulva! I think she is beautiful! As I’ve gotten older, my inner lips do extend out beyond my outer lips more than they used to. Additionally, they are a bit more asymmetrical than they used to be. This is, in part, because one of them tore a bit as I gave birth to my son (he came out face up rather than face down which stretched things a bit differently than usual). Anyhow, I view that as my maternal badge of honor.

Hi Betty

I sent you one photo last week mentioning my luv of masturbation using a natural substance i.e. sperm i would luv to know what your thoughts are ?

I have enclosed 2 more pics of my vulva plus lubricant. My partner and i enjoy mutual masturbation with him ejaculating either in or on the lips of my vagina. We find some lubricants either sticky or they tend to try to quickly. Please ad these 2 pics to the one submitted last week as both my partner and myself enjoy the thought somebody else is enjoying our pleasures.

Great site
Anne

Hi Betty

Since joining your site and looking at those lovely cocks and pussy's both my partner ( s ) and myself have not left each other alone.

I forgot to mention in previous essays that we often share our luv life with a 3rd person, a male, in fact these pics were taken just after we had a 3 some session, hence the amount of " lubricant " spread around!

When I was growing up my mother taught me to refer to my vagina as my "cookie." As in, "make sure to wipe both your cookie and your tushie after going to the bathroom." I started sex play with my friends at 6 and had my first orgasm at 12 from masturbating, and then at 16 came for the first time with another person when my friend Paul went down on me for the first time...but all that time I could never find a word I liked for what I had down there.

Hi Betty

I would like to share with your visitors a before and after picture of my vulva, as i have said in previous essays, both my partner and myself luv sex to the full, and at 60 i think that's pretty good.

These pics were taken before and after we had a 3 some session, we luv sharing our bed with one very special friend who with my partner fullfill my every wish.

To be in a safe secure relationship makes having a 3 some partner for us, just wonderful, we have known our friend for 12 years, it is a true friendship in every sense of the word.

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I have been a fan of your site for about 10 years, ever since I discovered you in an article in Glamour magazine. I tried the fantasy phone sex you recommended, and it opened up a whole new world for me in my forties. I am hornier than I have ever been, and fantasize constantly about group sex, a lesbian experience, getting my pussy lips pierced and more.