Dear Betty,

When I saw your website I immediately wanted to share my own pussy and story. I discovered the pleasure of touching myself when I was eight years old. I thought it was something special only I could do until my cousin, who was a year older than I, learned about it in her own school. Up until that point, I had felt slightly guilty about masturbation, being brought up in a fairly conservative home. When I found out that many others enjoyed the experience, I was hooked (and still am!)

Hi Dr. Betty,

I have become a fan of your website. I make sure to read your WHAT'S NEW? category every time you upload new things. Your articles and Q&A's are always so frank and honest that I find myself quoting you to my friends all the time. I just recently bought your new book, Orgasms for Two, and have gotten loads of important information that other books don't even talk about.

Hi Betty,

As you see I like to keep my cunt very closely trimmed. Also I love oral sex so I want my lovers to see everything is very neat and clean. I call her "First Lady" which amuses my friends. I am 31 and single.

Hi Betty,

Attached please find a picture of my pussy. I am 48 but everyone tells me that I look 28 years younger.

I had to masturbate I don't know how many times while taking the photo. My pussy is pretty horny, and I have to make her happy. I have to touch her all the time, and just the thought of it makes me wet. My favorite thing to do when I masturbate is to rub my clit. I start slowly, and pick up the speed. Excuse for just a second, my pussy needs to cum now...

Dear Betty, 

I love to keep my pussy bare. I shave it regularly to keep it silky smooth. I strip my clothes off as soon as I get home from work. I hate clothes and clean my house in the nude. I never wear panties which is a turn on for my husband.

Hi Betty,

I used to cringe at the word "cunt" but now, with the help of some gentlemen friends, I find it a sexy term for the most feminine part of my body. As a young girl it was to pee, as I reached and went through puberty it caused me pain and pleasure and during my married life it was more frustration then enjoyment.

A few years ago I stepped out on my own and experimented with life and lust. I have learned to enjoy myself and my body and how to share the pleasures I have found with others.

Dear Betty,

Throughout most of my adolescence and early teen years, I was really self conscience about my fuller pussy lips. If I would "fool" around with guys, I dreaded them putting their hands down my pants, figuring they would think that it was gross or weird. I started to look at porn and other X rated material at about age 17 and I couldn't help but notice that most of the porn stars had cute little pussies with tiny little lips and that just made my situation all the more worse. I felt like a freak!!

Dear Betty,

I am a 34 years old married woman and have always been shy and ashamed of my huge pussy lips. Even my 15 years old duaghter told me a few months ago, "Mother don't wear those tight jeans 'cause your pussy is big and everybody notices it." That became the perfect moment for some cunt positive sex-ed between my daughter and me becuase I now have a new attitude myself about my cunt.

Dear Betty (my essay),

I think most women, and probably quite a few men, fantasize about posing for nude photographs. Until recently the nearest I came to fulfilling my fantasy was when I was 19 - my boyfriend wanted to take some topless photos of me but I insisted on keeping my nipples covered (mainly because I didn't quite trust him not to show the pictures to his friends).