Our pleasure repressed society thanks to most organized religions puts a huge emphasis on vaginal intercourse.

I repeat: An orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm!

Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. If you stimulate your clitoris during penetration, you can orgasm from their penis.

If you still prefer vaginal stimulation then get a dildo that curves up at the end.

You can upgrade your masturbation technique and stop humping blankets.

It's not about your partner. It's about the type of clitoral stimulation you're experiencing with your partner.

You can upgrade your masturbation routine and increase the intensity of your orgasms.

If you want to continue to explore this, tell your partner to ease off.

I too had some in my youth but I never knew why or how to recreate them so they were never all that dependable.

Your clitoris is a woman's primary sex organ for pleasure.