Can a Man Orgasm Without Ejaculating?
Dear Dr. Betty,
I have been hearing it is possible for men to have an orgasm without ejaculating. Is that possible? I can last for 30-40 min but then have a hard time (lol) getting back up again after ejaculating. I have heard you can control your pc and stop yourself from EJ. I feel I have a strong PC but when it starts to build I can't stop.
Yes it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating. This practice is part of Eastern religions of Tantra or Taoist Sex that requires years of practice and training. Personally, I prefer a man with good come control and your 30 to 40 minutes sounds adequate. But then I don't encourage a woman to orgasm from penis/vagina penetration without additional clitoral stimulation. It's best if she does that for herself. As for getting hard again, a clever partner could help out there. I suggest you contact my protege Eric Amaranth. He can work with you using SKYPE. While he doesn't teach semen retention he does have good information for men on how to improve their sexual skills.