Can All Vaginas Handle Big Penis?

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Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am a male of average endowment and not seeking some perverse thrill by asking the following question, its something I always wanted to know. I understand the vagina is 6 inches in depth and is very elastic when it comes to width. But what about these abnormally large penisis over 10 inches, can all women handle these without suffering physical damage? Do some women refuse to have sex with superlarge tools? It seems to me that there has to be a limit on how large (length) a vagina can tolerate.

Dear J,

I just wrote this to a student of human sexuality. According to Masters and Johnson, a research team that followed Kinsey (my favorite researcher) they stated that the vagina was a collapsed space that could accommodate any sized penis. I say "wrong." Not only from my personal experience but from 40 years of clinical practice. While it's true that the vaginal barrel gets deeper when a woman is fully aroused which rarely happens today thanks to our nation of "wham, bam, thank you Mam" for 4 minute fucks.

For most women to become "fully aroused" would require ideal clitoral stimulation for at least 30 minutes or more. This rarely happens, but when it does, the uterus lifts (called ballooning) which creates more space. This will be different for different women. But at that point it adds another inch or two in depth which would allow deeper penetration.

Now there are also some women who naturally have deep vaginas. But for the most part, those 10 to 12 inch penises are only prized in porn. Many women would need to negotiate the last inch or two to be remain comfortable. Most smart men with very large dicks know to be gentle and to not drive it in "up to the hilt." It seems that girth wins out over length in many cases. Best of all, it's not the size of the fish but the motion of the ocean that many women love best. Finally, most women do not come from vaginal penetration alone. That's another best kept secret in today's porn that has been the primary sex education for several generations of boys.

Dr. Betty

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