Hi Betty,
In the last few years me and my wife have found out that we're quite exhibitionistic, but not quite ready to come out of the closet just yet. Let's just say that if someone were to sneak a peak while we were in the middle of fucking and one of us knew about it, we'd keep right on fucking giving them a good show. What we really want to do is fuck in the middle of a park in the middle of the day in the summertime having the sunlight baking our naked bodies while we fuck.
That's our latest fantasy, how it's going to come true without us getting arrested I have no idea but I'm sure we'll think of something! I wish I could have gotten my wife to send you pics of her pussy along with my cock but she's shy and thinks that she doesn't look good when in my eyes she's very beautiful. We're both 26 and we've been married for 6 1/2 years. My wife has called my cock "woody" ever since we have been together and ever since she has gotten off birth control she just has been a fucking machine! (Not complaining at all!)
Since I am an salesman for a big corporation and my job takes me away from home often, I regularly masturbate. I don't want to cheat on my wife because I love her dearly and she says that she doesn't mind that I do it because she would rather I jerk off than cheat on her. Even though there are ups and downs, I consider myself happily married. While I'm on the subject, would you happen to know where I could get info on sex positions? We love to fuck doggystyle but every time we do it she says that I'm too big and I always poke her cervix. So if you know of any variations of that position I'd appreciate you sending some info.
Keep up the good work Betty and I'm a true believer of if everyone in the world were fucking, there'd be no war!
Woody
Dear Woody,
What a pretty woody you have. Thanks for being part of my genital art gallery. Now as for your question about doggy style, one of my favorites too. Hold back on deep penetration in the beginning. In this position, you have full access to her vagina. Unless she's in a high state of arousal, your dick will push into the mouth of her uterus as you have discovered. It's an uncomfortable feeling for the woman.
Several things can help. After fucking for a while and she's really turned on, the uterus lifts a bit and creates more space. It's called "ballooning." Then you can gently push deeper. An important element is going slow with your stroking while you both make adjustments. When you push in too deep, she needs to pull a way from you. Once she's really turned on, she'll back into you wanting more. But never at any point do you want to slam fuck. Doggy makes the woman too vulnerable for hard fast fucking.
Another adjustment is the angle of her pelvis. I find knee chest helps to open me up even more. When I'm doing doggy, I'm also using my PC muscle. At times I squeeze it by lifting up and at other times, I slightly bear down which seems to create more vaginal space. Of course, I'm using a vibrator on my clitoris the entire time we are fucking. In my latest book Orgasms for Two, I did a drawing of this. Check it out.
Betty
