Dear Dr. Betty:
My lover and I have both had a few other sexual partners with varying degrees of success, but none that compare with the incredible sexual pleasure we share with each other. Our relationship started slowly, almost disastrously. She was nervous about me seeing her body. She kept the lights off and most of her clothes on the first time we made love. Although it was not great sex, we quickly learned something very important about each other. We are both more concerned about giving pleasure than receiving it. What a great combination.
I asked about her fantasies. She said she really never fantasized. We talked about masturbation. She thought masturbation was dirty. The only people who masturbated were ones who were not satisfied by their lovers. We began to explore fantasies and masturbation. She found several Internet sites, including yours, on the subject, and after reading what other people had to say, she realized that she might never fully appreciate the pleasures of sex until she understood her own body. Slowly, she began to enjoy the pleasures of touching herself, and found that in certain positions, if she touched herself while I was inside of her, the pleasure was quite wonderful.
The Internet has been wonderful for our relationship. We send sexy emails to each other, expressing ideas, fantasies, and suggestions for our next love making session. These ideas would have been difficult to express in person, but once they were in writing, it became much easier to talk about them in together. We can get each other very horny with a couple of provocative emails. Sometimes we just relive our last sexual experience, telling each other how wonderful the oral sex was or how great it felt when we were in a certain position. Our lovemaking improves almost every time because we tell each other what we want and what turns us on.
One day, she suggested we have phone sex. I was a little surprised and quite excited. The first experience was a little intimidating, but it resulted in some very enjoyable orgasms. Now we love to watch each other masturbate and our lovemaking has become more and more visual. She enjoys telling me how much she loves my penis and how exciting it is to watch me cum. We refer to the head of my penis as Alice's ridge because she loves the feel of the ridge as it slides in and out of her mouth while she is sucking my cock. We recently made a video of our love making which we both find incredibly erotic.
We have discovered one special position that never fails to result in fantastic orgasms. She lies face up on a footstool with her pussy at the edge of the stool. Her head rests in the chair behind the stool. I kneel between her legs. This puts her clitoris at a perfect position for some fantastic oral sex, and it is just the right height for me to slide my cock into her anxious pussy. We can make love in this position for hours, alternating between intercourse and oral sex, with both of us reaching "the edge" many times.
She loves to play with her clitoris while I am driving my penis in and out. Since she is controlling the amount of clitoral stimulation she receives with her fingers, she can have as many almost orgasms as she wants. The pleasure is so good; we often forgo having an orgasm. It is wonderful stopping while we are both in a heightened state of sexual excitement, instead of feeling that after-orgasm letdown.
One very special benefit to this position is the visual stimulation I get from being able to watch my cock as it goes in and out of her pussy. She loves for me to alternate between hard, deep thrusts and long, slow, penetration when my penis comes all the way out of her pussy before the next stroke. Watching this is an incredible turn on for me and the pleasure is fantastic for her each time my cock re-enters her vagina.
Our sexual experiences and the pleasure we feel have gotten better and better. We are always excited when we achieve a new high, and can hardly wait until we find a way to improve on the last experience. Thanks for the part your open and informative web site has played in our sexual growth. We are constantly thankful for what we have together and wish that every couple could share the excitement we have found. We send you our love.
Nancy and Matt "Smith"
