Hi Dr. Betty,
I am writing to share a technique my wife and I enjoy that I have not come across browsing your site.
Early on I learned to use my hands for stimulation but also to linger and stretch out my masturbation sessions . I am not talking of simply stroking my dick. My fingers, warmed with the increased blood flowing through my body, gently touch and stroke every area of my groin, inner thighs, scrotum and testicles. Even stroking my pubic hair helps stimulate the nerves surrounding the hair folicles.
I understand that women need time and stimulation to become aroused to their full sexual potential. I really believe I cannot be fully satisfied without giving my wife every possible pleasure at my disposal. My personal experience of using my hands to arouse myself has served me well in giving pleasure to my wife. Her thighs are so smooth, warm and soft. I tease her by feeling areas adjacent to the crown jewel wandering ever closer but then moving away to build her anticipation
After fifteen minutes of kissing and touching every erotic area of her body I circle in to the crown. By then moisture has formed on the inner edges of her vaginal lips.
Slight pinching of each vaginal lip urges warm blood to flow into the area increasing the moisture flow needed for what comes next. I gently, always gently rub the lips and eventually dip my finger slightly into her melting pussy to tap the moisture lingering there. Masturbating her with my own hand arouses me and by now she is grasping and pulling at me to give her more of what she is enjoying so much. I use direct clitoral stimulation with my finger or gently pinch her vaginal lips over her clitoris and use a back and forth motion to drive her up and over the edge.
After stimulating herself to a second clitoral climax she is now pleading for penetration. The insertion is heaven on earth! The warm, moist friction generated by mutual thrusts soon drive us into a unified climax. Each one seems better than the last.
Now is the time to hold each other while the nerves are so alive with energy. We slowly let the feelings subside and enjoy the moment that bonds our marriage together.
Jerry, New Jersey
