Dear Betty,
When I had my first boyfriend about 17, things got started by my letting him play with my breasts. He then showed me his penis and demonstrated how he jacked off. Soon I took over and gave him lot of fine ejaculations. When he offered to do my pussy, I was at a loss. We both agreed that fucking was out of question because we didn't have condoms and there was no way we could buy them in our small town, besides we were under age. In the past I had tried using my fingers but that didn't do anything for me. My boyfriend suggested using a cucumber but that hurt. So I had to be content with breast play, cuddling and doing him until I went to college.
I was looking forward to the orgasms I had read about and I was prepared with the pill for my first serious date. What a disappointment. He came in about three minutes and it hurt too. Same thing next time so I got another cute guy. He wasn't so fast as the other one but I didn't have anything like an orgasm. After about five more guys I was ready to give up on sex.
I finally one night I revealed my problem to my roommate, Marge. She simply said, "It looks like you don't know how to take care of yourself. Do you masturbate?"
When I admitted that I didn't, she said, "I can to give you an important lesson, if you are really ready to shed your inhibitions." I took me all of two seconds to say yes.
She took off her skirt and panties and flopped on the bed. Then she showed her pussy to me, really shocking me when she revealed her clit. In the next five minutes she explained that women need stimulation on their clits in order to have an orgasm, gave a demo (using lube), and had an orgasm!
Before we went to bed, she gave me her copy of your book, Sex For One and made me promise to read it right away. You can believe I read the whole book the next day. Within a couple of weeks I was a fully orgasmic, happy woman!
That's my story.
Vera
