Hi Dr. Betty:
I discovered the pleasures of my genitals at very young ago, maybe 6 or 7. I remember rubbing most of my toys, my teddy, my rubber duck, my pencil pack, against my pussy. Mom was very liberated, a kind of hippy, and used the word pussy, so she had to explain to me why BeBe, our pussy cat had the same name. When I discovered my clit playing on our sun porch, Mother, God bless her, said that was the main source of pleasure for women. That's all. Not one word of criticism or caution.
Even since then, I have been a devotee of masturbation. I am now thirty-two, living alone. I masturbate almost every night, even if I have had sex with a man or woman earlier (I am bisexual). Most nights, I just cuddle up with my magic wand and take half an hour to have one or two nice orgasms.
One or two nights, I do the body appreciation rituals from your book Sex for One on the floor. I start by getting my a stand-alone makeup mirror and focus my desk lamp between my legs so that I can examine my cunt, explore outside and inside, paying much attention to my clit. Then I do a complete vulva massage using massage oil and finish with a big orgasm.
Next I go to my bathroom, already setup with candlelight and incense. I slip into the tub of hot water with coconut oil and Epsom salts and start using my fragrant scented soap. Next I listen to romantic music while I caress breasts and my cunt for 20 or 25 minutes. Then with the tub only half full I straddle the faucet so that the warm water hits my cunt vigorously. It takes only 4 or 5 minutes for me to have a giant orgasm! I am already half asleep when I hit the bed.
Keep up your great work, Betty. You have been an inspiration to millions, judging from what I have read about your work.
Love, Naomii
