As you know from my previous emails, I am now successful in achieving orgasm where I was not before. I now have another question. I know you say every woman's pussy is unique, but I have not yet seen one quite like mine either in your forum or other pictures. My inner lips hang sort of like flaps when the outer lips are pulled apart. My clitoris is hidden deep up inside of them even then, and when not pulled apart, it sort of looks like the longer flap is a tongue sticking out of my pussy. I once asked my OBG/YN who seemed rather uncomfortable when I did ask and skirted the question. Most of my life, I have felt this was abnormal. Until recently, I thought I had empty "ball sacs" hanging there. I have attached 3 pictures which I took myself, but did not quite get the clitoris to come out of hiding for the pictures. Please take a look and let me know....this is the main reason I had never wanted to have oral sex performed on me nor did I want intercourse with the lights on. I'm over that now, oral and lights, but still wonder. Have you seen anything like this before?
GetnItGood
Dear GetinItgood,
Great news about becoming orgasmic. You have a perfectly healthy vulva with petals that are what I'd call "medium" in size and length. However, you will never see another vulva exactly like yours. One thing I did observe is that you might want to practice spreading your legs further apart to open up the entire pelvic floor area. Like sitting in Yoga posture.
Interesting that you said your inner lips looked like empty ball sacks. That's true. The female genitals are the template for what males end up with. So we must have the same structures that develop into the male genitals. I called my much longer inner lips my "wattles" cause they looked like the dangling flaps that chickens have. Once I realized I was "normal" I learned to love my dangling inner lips and would never part with them.
Dr. Betty
