Hello Betty:
Isn't it funny how the part we keep most hidden and private is also the one that gives us the greatest pleasure sensations? My inner labia were always rather prominent; they've always stuck out just a bit, like a naughty tongue, so I was quite aware of exactly where that tingly feeling originated from. My clit is also rather sensitive and I tend to have intense, single orgasms (the way men are supposed to have them), while only rarely being able to have multiples in the same session.
I used to be bashful about exposing my pussy to my lovers until I read a book about men's sexual fantasies, and discovered that there are quite a few men who love nothing more than to perform cunnilingus on a woman. This changed my perspective a lot, and now I am quite willing to share what I call my "flower of pleasure". If they're really enjoying it and I'm really enjoying it, what is there to hide?
I learned how to masturbate at a very young age -- quite by accident, actually, for it was not very long after being potty-trained. I still have the memory of lying on my hand in the crib, trying to "hold it in" and then discovering that the tickly feeling between my legs made me want to wriggle about, more and more, until I had my first orgasm -- which sent me into a fit of giggling because it felt so amazingly good!
Some favorite masturbation techniques: most often I will just use rapid back-forth or circling massage-strokes over the hood over my clit, but other favorite methods include directing a stream of water from a hand held shower; tugging on my clit as if I were jacking off a small penis; massaging Tiger Balm over my entire vulva or even suction from the hose of a mini-vacuum (which has produced some rather tremendous orgasms!) I also find that spreading my outer lips wide open helps intensify the sensation and brings me to orgasm more quickly. Sometimes I diddle my nipples at the same time, and my fantasy would be to have two or more cute young guys all working and playing on my "pleasure points"!
I've also discovered different orgasm variations depending on what spot I concentrate on. A light tickling on the "north" part of my clit produces a sweet, tickly orgasm, while strokes or massages concentrated on the "south" part of the clit produces a deep and satisfying orgasm. Sometimes I'm able to have two orgasms in one session this way, since the "sweet" orgasm often leaves my clit begging for more!
Luckily, most of my recent lovers have been eager pussy-eaters as well. As you can see from the photos, my clit is quite easy to locate so they've usually had no problem satisfying me. Usually how I like it is to be teased with a flickering tongue at the start, then have my clit circled and sucked on as I am heading into orgasm. (Light suction almost always feels heavenly!)
Here's a helpful suggestion for any novices who may be reading: if you can't find your partner's clitoris, try spreading the outer pussy lips open and upwards. (Not the inner ones -- the outer ones). Not only will this help you locate the clit, but it may help create a quicker and more intense orgasm!
Beverly
