I have to say I do enjoy your site celebrating our genitals. At the current age of 51, I have a love/hate relationship with my manhood. Also being a 12 hour third shift worker, being tired comes with the territory. Needless to say, I have times that I'm disappointed by his lack of stamina. Yes, I refer to my cock as ‘him'. I truly believe that most women don't understand the requirements of the erect penis. This is not to say that is a frequent problem. Just bothersome when it does and she doen't understand why.
I have to say I do enjoy your site celebrating our genitals. At the current age of 51, I have a love/hate relationship with my manhood. Also being a 12 hour third shift worker, being tired comes with the territory. Needless to say, I have times that I'm disappointed by his lack of stamina. Yes, I refer to my cock as ‘him'. I truly believe that most women don't understand the requirements of the erect penis. This is not to say that is a frequent problem. Just bothersome when it does and she doen't understand why.
I have had a great time with my cock since I first discovered the wonderful feelings that he brings to me. Puberty and through high school was mostly solo. Though in high school, I did have a girlfriend that we tried to connect through intercourse. My problem is that my cock is basically ‘square'. Let me explain. I'm 6.5" long, but I'm also 6.5" around. Square! I was never able to enter my HS girlfriend no matter what we did in the back of my mothers car. I did enter her about 2 weeks before we broke up with some hand lotion, but lacking much sexual knowledge, I pulled out not wanting to get her pregnant. I never had an orgasm with her. She liked me to go down on her, but the obvious problem with her going down on me through lack of experience was there. Masturbation was my relief when I got home.
When I joined the Navy in the mid 70's, I had been dating my current wife for a couple of years. She came from a sexually silent family and didn't want intercourse until marriage no matter how hard I tried. (Ironically, next year will be our 30th wedding anniversary.) When we first married, I was unable to enter her the first 3 years of marriage. More on that later. My first sexual orgasm in a woman was in the Philippines. Gees, was I now in my glory. I also found out that I was mult-orgasmic. Back then I was able to come explosively 2 or three time without even pulling out. Needless to say, I was very popular with the girls in port. Even the veteran bar maids enjoyed the pleasures of my manhood. Seems that girth is more important than length to many women. My opinion only. They sought me out after hearing from their friend that I had the night before and so on. I learned a lot about women and female sexuality back then. Those were days I will never forget. I still get hard thinking about those days. I sought out girls that liked oral sex as I craved to get a ‘good' blowjob. Even those girls couldn't satisfy that urge. I even went to a place that was only blowjobs. I had to finish myself off but the girl took my load into her mouth then spit it into a sink. Not the most rewarding experience. The ultimate blowjob still hasn't happened to this day.
When my wife and I married, my size around was a huge (no pun intended) problem. My wedding night orgasm was a hand job due to her starting her period that day. Oh well. A week later, I discovered she was still a virgin and there was no way my cock was going in her pussy. She was a bit afraid as well as she had never been penetrated. After 3 years of getting off by her very wet vulva and labia and coming on her belly, one night we went to an x-rated drive-in and got extremely turned on, but waited to get home for sex. That resulted in a very painful set of blue balls. Some effort and I was in. 10 seconds and 3 thrusts later, I felt like I shot a gallon. The orgasm lasted longer than the intercourse. As my wife slept next to me, I masturbated to another eruption in bed. Then my wife woke up and wanted it again. She felt the cum all over my belly and got quite turned on. So did I. Third time in a couple of hours. One night I'll never forget.
It was 10 more years before my wife would even consider oral sex. When that finally happened, I thought great. Well, she can barely get the head into her mouth. I'm not disappointed though. We have great sex and are not afraid to try most anything. I still get a very copious amount of pre-cum during every encounter with her or with my hand. In fact, my pre-cum is an intense turn-on for both of us.
I still enjoy solo time, but more as a build up to the next time I come inside her. I masturbate to the point of orgasm, but stop there. When we do have sex, it adds volume. The look on her face at that moment is priceless. I'm still able to stay hard for a 5 or 6 minutes after orgasm, but another orgasm is at least an hour off. Round two as we refer to it.
I do have fantasies. I would love to experience two or more women together, my wife and one or two other females. I would love to shoot my load on my wife's face and have her enjoy the flavor of my load. She likes the taste of pre-cum. I would like to have sex in risky places unknowingly. We did twice in Tahiti with dozens of people around us in 4 feet of water. We both finished and walked out of the water. VERY erotic. Back on the ship at dinner after the second time, we were referred to as ‘The Love Birds' by our waiter. Caught! In the woods by a stream would be wonderful. I'd also like to have sex with another couple, but am unsure of sharing partners. Watching and being watched is the turn-on. Also having my wife shave her pussy and walk around with a short skirt and no panties, or go to dinner and hand me her panties during the meal.
