Couldn't Put Down Sex for One

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am one of your star pupils. I say that because up until the age of 29 (I am 30 now), I was sure I would never have an orgasm.

I had my first sex with a boyfriend at 18. It was pretty messy and I had nothing but pain. I went on the pill and we got some lubrication so things went more smoothly but no sign of an orgasm for me. He had good cums and was a nice person so we went steady for 5 or 6 years. But during all that time I tried every position and even bought a dildo and one of those battery operated vibrators, still no orgasms for me.

When we broke up, I had sex with three other guys for several years. I liked the sex and got turned on, but it was very frustrating for me and I starting faking orgasms to avoid embarrassing questions.

One day cruising a bookstore I found your book, Sex for One. What a thrilling experience it was reading it. I couldn't put it down! I went out and bought the Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator the next the day and had my first orgasm by myself two nights later! Then I found out your website and bought three of your videos. Celebrating Orgams was especially informative, and I had orgasms right along with the five clients you were working with.

Six months ago I met a wonderful man and came clean with him about needing the Magic Wand for orgasms. Can you imagine he knew about you from television and had read your book too? Of course everything went perfectly and we were married four months ago! We are happy as larks and in celebration for making my sex life so great now, I am sending you photos my husband took for your Genital Art Gallery.

Lots of Love,
Barbara