Dear Dr. Betty,
Almost anything about my cunt seems a bit above average. The clitoris is pretty large, the labia too, even the vagina is on the wide side. I also get very wet during sex, and even when just mildly aroused, I am on the wet side.
I do not know when I started to masturbate. Actually I seem to have masturbated all along, ever since the start, maybe even in my prenatal stage. I have clear memories of clumsily masturbating myself since early childhood, when I would rub against the sofa's arm to excitement in front of my family.
My parents and grandparents were very nice about it, allowing it without trying to scare me, or repress me, until I was, I think, six, when they gently and carefully taught me that I should do it in private. And they did it in a sensible way, so that I didn't get the sensation that I was doing something improper
Eventually I learned to masturbate using the palm of my hand, later my fingers. During this period I developed the habit of doing it laying face-down on the bed, which I retain to this day, although I appreciate other positions as well. Ever since childhood, I have been masturbating with great enjoyment. There have been times when I masturbated daily or several times a day.
Today I masturbate with my fingers only. I'm not a big toy fan, although I occasionally use them and have used them in the past. I like direct stimulation of the clitoris for a fast cum. Or when I want to draw it out, I stimulate the whole area, than the labia and the clitoral shaft and in the end the clitoris. Just before the orgasm I often use the left hand to stimulate the vaginal opening and g-spot, but that's only a further boost in my pleasure, which essentially derives from the direct manipulation of the clitoris. The only toy I ever owned was a tiny vibrator designed to stimulate the labia and clitoris, but it broke recently. I am now considering buying a new one.
With my current boyfriend I have an extremely pleasurable and mature sexual relationship, with a great level of mutual understanding. It includes masturbation in all its variations. He is also adept at doing himself and we sometimes discuss our private sessions. But not in great detail because, although we both find it exciting to know that the other may have masturbated to the thought of us, the individual sessions are too private to really share. We also masturbate with each other, feeling totally at ease and free to experiment and play.
Love, Ada
