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1) Are you a virgin?

I am 23 yrs old and am a virgin to partner sex.
Thank you to this site, in that I don’t feel like an absolute freak of nature in this and that I am not the only one out there:)

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?
Well, it’s not really nasty, more like a delicious toe curling one for me:

Background: I am 6 feet 1 barefoot and practiced martial arts for a couple of years. Basically, I am confident in my ability to be able to take down anyone in a fight. I always feel like a giant and stronger than most men I meet.

SO, my fantasy is to be completely dominated. Complete submission. To feel helpless and absolutely vulnerable, but in a very safe and caring environment.

3) Any Fetishes?
Depends on my level of arousal. I have a strange fascination with gay erotic fiction, especially with a power play element.

4) Do you drink?
I am Ukrainian born and Russian raised! It’s like there is almost no choice in the matter. I do have a ridiculously high tolerance, so it is almost not worth it.

5) What's your sexual preference?
I am open to whatever life offers. A confident man makes me tingle all over, but there is also something utterly intoxicating about a voluptuous female body.

6) Pet peeves?
Arrogant close-minded people, who feed their egos by belittling others.

7) Are you taken or on the market?
On the market.

Cool Anything "wild" about you?
There are two sets of opinions about me:
1.A straight laced bookish goody two shoes, who is disgustingly innocent and naïve.
2.A sub in an Amazon’s body, whose mind would make the most depraved of sinners blush.
I am just looking for a teacher of the sexual arts

1) Are you a virgin?

Nope, lost it when I was 16.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

Honestly, to go to the Bunny Ranch and have a great time with Air Force Amy!

3) Any Fetishes?

Not really.

4) Do you drink?

Yes

5) What's your sexual preference?

I'm bisexual!! I love the penis, but there's just something about women that turn me on sooo much!

6) Pet peeves?

Rudeness

7) Are you taken or on the market?

Very much taken, tying the knot this October!

8) Anything cool or wild about you?

Hmmm... I love to get crazy. Just chill out and be weird  I guess, but that works for my soon to be hubby and I. LoL

Are there women out there who enjoy watching a man masturbate?  What do you like to see?  Is it in the face, or in the various stages the penis goes through with changes in shape and color?  The foreskin goes back and forth to make a little peep show.  The pubic hair ends up getting all sticky.  Womens eyes make it all worthwhile.

1) Are you a virgin?

No, I lost my virginity at the age of seventeen.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

Fucking the hell out of another woman with a strap on.

3) Any Fetishes?

BDSM

4) Do you drink?

No.

5) What's your sexual preference?

Attentive and experienced lovers

6) Pet peeves?

Ignorant people and intolerance.

7) Are you taken or on the market?

Not sure about that... But I suppose I'm taken.

8) Anything cool or wild about you?

I don't think so... at least there is nothing I could think of right now.

1. Are you a virgin? Yes... And it embarasses me in a way because all my other friends with the exception of a couple lost their virginity between the ages of 13 and 18. I've just turned 21 and it makes me feel so... behind.

2. What's your nastiest fantasy? I don't have too many, but since I was about sixteen I've had weird rape fantasies where some man would just appear in various settings (like ancient Greece, ancient Scandinavia, deep in a dark forest, etc.) and "rape" me, but I'd be attracted to him so it's more like rough sex with a total stranger than anything else.

I fantasize a lot about girls, too. All different kinds, but I tend to gravitate toward slender, small-breasted, dark-haired girls, but some redheads as well. Mostly all the fantasies are just kissing, nipple sucking, and oral. No strap-ons or anything like that. I wouldn't be averse to it, that's just not where my interests lie.

3. Any fetishes? Not personally, but I get off on erotic fiction. The Story of the Eye by George Bataille started all that.

I also think piercings and tattoos are awesome. I've been considering getting my nipples pierced, but only if a girl did it (for some reason, even though I've had two piercings done by men, I wouldn't want them to do that to me). I think those nipple bars are damn sexy and I fantasize about playing with them, either my own or another girl's. My ideal partner has at least one or both of these things- I can live without it, but I think either/or is really hot on ANYBODY.

4. Do you drink? Yeah, but not a lot. I'm still not used to the taste of alcohol yet. Mostly when I'm alone and watching a movie or something.

5. What's your sexual preference? Mostly men, but I like women, too. It's, like, 60/40. So pretty close these days.

As far as men go, I prefer big, tall, dark-haired guys. If I were to list all the famous men my friends and I giggle over, you'd definately see a pattern in the ones I gravitate towards. I also would rather a man be a bit chunky than overly skinny, and gray hair doesn't faze me a bit- even turns me on sometimes! If I could just clone Benicio Del Toro as Frankie Four Fingers in Snatch, I think I'd be set for life. But he'd have to have Benicio's actual voice.

As I mentioned before, I tend to go for slight, dark-haired girls with small, pretty breasts. Like Natascha Khan. I've only recently (maybe in the last six to eight months) realised that I was attracted to women. It was always there, but I'd never really thought about it until the thought just came to me one day. I feel a million times better after accepting it, like there was this huge weight I never even noticed until some little part of my brain goes, "Hey, dumbass, there's a huge weight on your back!" And then thinking that through... I relaxed for the first time in what felt like forever.

6. Pet peeves? SO MANY THINGS. I won't go into any of them. Funny related note: I was referred to as "the Music Nazi" by my friends in high school because I tend to be a bit snobbish about what people listen to. I've improved and I'm a little bit less of a bastard about it these days, but I'll still make fun of you to your face if you like Nickelback.

7. Are you taken or on the market? I'm on the market. Nobody's buying, though.

Anything cool or wild about me? Not really. I'm mediocre in all my skills and largely ignored by most of the population, and when I'm paid attention to, it's never in a good way.

The only thing I can really say is, my hair has literally been every color of the rainbow (seriously, name a color, it's been there at least twice!), I have a collection of nail polish to rival a manicurist, and I've got a very extensive collection of makeup from various lines, from the cheap stuff you can get at your local Wal-Mart to high-end stuff like MAC. I'm a licensed cosmetologist and I'm trying to get started as a makeup artist because I found hairdressing to be totally soul-crushing (it felt like NOBODY was ever satisfied) and this will allow me to use my skills as a painter.

I've enjoyed reading everyone else's comments!

1) Are you a virgin?

No. Can't say exactly when I lost it. I started very young. My first attempt to lose it was when I was 10. I had older siblings that taught me too much too early.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

Having several women giving me a sponge bath and becoming aroused. Each having her way with me.

3) Any Fetishes?

Getting caught.

4) Do you drink?

Yes. Though not to the point of intoxication. A nice buzz after a long day helps.

5) What's your sexual preference?

Women! I like to mix things up a bit in the bedroom. Though nothing too kinky.

6) Pet peeves?

Ignorance, or what I call "stupid people".

7) Are you taken or on the market?

Taken.

Anything cool or wild about me? That could be a book!

I've been lurking about this site for some time now. I had e-mailed Betty with a question a few years ago, when I was courting my wife. I had questions about female sexuality and needed to know how to go about making sure my parner was satified. Her advice helped me out of my shell.

With my first wife, I was never sure if what I was doing was satisfying her. When she passed away in 2004, it took me some time to understand that I deserved to be happy with another woman.

We met on-line and were married within a year of our meeting. I don't know if we are soulmates, but we are open and honest with each other. I feel as though I now have the emotional and intimate relationship I had always hoped to find.

So there it is - still a bit shy, and still too much of a chunk.

um... no, the only weird fetish i have is that everytime i masturbate i have to do it with a sock puppet

dO yOU gUyz lIk3 Bl0wIng yUr mAn wEn yOU pOur fRuIt s0dA oN hiS DiCk s0 hIs cUm tAstEz lYk fRuit?

i actually prefer fruit punch soda, it has a full daily recommended serving of every fruit in there and can really increase the distance of your shot...

i myself am participating in a "shoot-off" in Germany this weekend...

grape soda always makes me cum harder and longer.

i tried mountain dew but its the grape flavoring that really helps me. anyone else have such luck from soda?

1) Are you a virgin? nA, I l0St iT wEn I wAz 7, cUz I g0T dA cAt prEgNaNt, tHen aT 10 mY cOusIn g0t ME pr3gn4nt.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? I wIsh3d i cOulD hAv3 sEx wIt dA gArbAgE mAN

3) Any Fetishes? shyt and str4wb3rries

4) Do you drink? gRaP3 sOda, bUt oCasSiOnaLly aPpLe jUicE

5) What's your sexual preference? AniMals, lIl kIdz, MeN aNd W0mEn wH0 eNjoy Cum On dA fAC3

6) Pet peeves?  nIgGaz wH0 aRenT aFfEcTed By R0oFiez

7) Are you taken or on the market?  tAkeN bLUh

hello I'm 18 and I'm Kayla

1) Are you a virgin? no

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? threesome

3) Any Fetishes? my partner biting me and being rough

4) Do you drink? Socially

5) What's your sexual preference? Someone happy funny and in tune with what they want

6) Pet peeves? stupid comments, weed smokers, people jumping conclusions. hmmm if i have a new one ill let you know

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken and loving it

1) are you a virgin? decidedly not

2) what's your nastiest fantasy? hmm... kind of depends on my mood. somedays, it's hasty sex in a semi-secluded spot, other days it's this rather elaborate rape scenario my friend and i have been talking about acting out for years.

3) any fetishes? rope play, body worship, discipline, humiliation. you know, all the good things in life, heh.

4) do you drink?very very rarely.

5) what's your sexual preference? clean, confident, honest and consenting adults. that's about all i need.

6) pet peeves? sexually? people who are too timid to ask for what they want. in general? that and people who think fat is a curse word haha.

7) are you taken or on the market? i'm uh...open to suggestion.

and as for anything "wild" about me uh...well, i work with a local photographer right now doing fetish so he can build his portfolio, and i have a boy harem.

1) Are you a virgin? No.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? I started fantasizing about a female burglar coming in and having ehr way with me at the age of 8.

3) Any Fetishes? Of course.

4) Do you drink? Very occasionally.

5) What's your sexual preference? Open, loving, honest girl who can have a laugh in bed.

6) Pet peeves? Idiotic people having sex.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

I think the only really wild thing about me is that sex is probably really on my mind every 5 minutes. I love the dirty jokes, the medical books on it, arguing about it, talking about it casually... I don't like that it's a hush, hush topic. Words like cunt and pussy will always make me blush, even if I'm just thinking them, but I like it like that.

I'm just...experimental.

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Is sex dirty? Only if it's done right.

Hi

i am a 45 yr old guy and i'm wondering.  my sex drive has shut down, even masturbation has no appeal.  my wife is forth coming, i'm just not interested.  is there some way to kick start my desire again.  as a young boy and into my early teens i would masturbate all the time. my wife is my best friend but sex is just not interesting me.  we have been together for 6 years and in the beginning sex was great. i feel the need to be more active for our relationship sake, but i'm unsure how to rekindle my desire.  any help would be great..  unsure.. 

Hi everybody
i am a 45 yr old guy and i'm wondering if there is a way back. i seem to have shut down, i have been in a few relationships and now don't even find masturbation enjoyable. is there an easy way to rekindle. as a child i always masturbated. my wife and i have been having a difficult few years, but she is my best friend and now i'm just not interested.
any help would be apprieciated. unsure

Here goes ...

1) Are you a virgin?

Nope, not since age 17. Was plenty active on my own before that, tho!

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

I'm not sure anyone here really wants to know that ;)

3) Any Fetishes?

Rendezvous, sadism, masochism, breath play, bondage, exhibitionism ...

4) Do you drink?

Yep.

5) What's your sexual preference?

Wanting to delve into polyamoury & bisexuality. Curious for the time being.

6) Pet peeves?

People who take everything too seriously & can't strike a balance.

7) Are you taken or on the market?

Taking applications lol

Cool Anything "wild" about you? You like being stared at, flirting with people you hardly know, macking on your best friend's girl/guy, etc?

Um ... well, it takes things that are a bit out of the ordinary to get my motor running. I've only recently experienced my 1st orgasm from intercourse (I'm a couple years from 30) and want to keep up the momentum!

s a n e i s b o r i n g

Just wanted to say thanks to Betty (I'll get to know about Carla, I'm sure) - she has helped me get over quite a few years of sexual repression (despite me thinking I wasn't repressed!!) and finally orgasm 'at will' (with a little help from my Rabbit!!  My husband is thrilled with the 'new me'!!  Here's a little bit about me:

1) Are you a virgin? No, not for a long time! 

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? I'm not really a fantasy kind of girl... yet!!

3) Any Fetishes? Again, not really

4) Do you drink? Socially

5) What's your sexual preference? Men and someone open to new ideas & fun.

6) Pet peeves? Insensitve partners.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

1) Are you a virgin?
No. I lost my virginity when I was 15, and my ex got me too drunk to move.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?
Sex with my boyfriend and another woman. A stranger, I'd never with someone I know.

3) Any Fetishes?
I love to dress up. We don't so much role play, but lingerie or costumes give me confidence.

4) Do you drink?
No. Not since I was fifteen.

5) What's your sexual preference?
Love. I don't care about race, religion, gender, anything of those sorts. I am sexually attracted when I feel loved by someone else.

6) Pet peeves?
People who assume they understand me, without bothering to learn.
Ignorance.

7) Are you taken or on the market?
I am taken, and very much in love.

Cool Anything "wild" about you?
I love to flirt. I never deny that I am with someone, or lead anyone on, but if the guy behind the counter at Dairy Queen is going to give me a free ice cream for batting my eyelashes, I will. I feel empowered when people take notice, but I am very shy. With complete strangers, whom I'll never meet again, I love to flirt. I can be a more confident version of myself, and I think that girl is amazing.

Ok, trying this again. I cried when the computer errored before submitting.

New to the group and can't wait to join into the wonderful world of conversation.

1) Are you a virgin? No, lost it when I was 21; but living in the Bible Belt people are telling me its still intact because it wasn't with a man. I'm sorry sex is sex regardless of gender in my opinion.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? Depends on your definition of nasty. I'm a nun in a convent having sex with most of the sister mary whatevers in all sorts of places from the altar to confession all in secrecy while evading the Reverend Mother.

3) Any Fetishes? Hot candles, massage oil in conjunction with being whipped by a cat of nine tails on a cross.

4) Do you drink? Socially, meaning two beers with some friends and saki on special occasions.

5) What's your sexual preference? Women with meat on their bones.

6) Pet peeves? People who cannot drive with horrid bumper stickers that setting their car on fire wouldn't make the car feel better. Lazy people who show up for a pay check. Nothing gets the blood boiling like having to pick up someone else's slack.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

Cool Anything "wild" about you? This might be a little long.

I can't stand people judging me especially using religion as an escape. There is a guy named "Birdsong" that likes to travel to college campuses preaching his fire and brimstone. He followed me around telling me how I was going to hell for wearing shorts and a tank top; I decided to get even the next day. I talked my next door dormmate into going down to Dodson where the free speech area was and she was just as thrilled about it as I was. We sat down at Birdsong's feet and started making out in front of him. He got so disgusted that he left the area as we were welcomed with cheers from everyone in the area from getting rid of the pest. I call it the wildest because it was a year before I came out of the closet. Little did we know that there were some follower's of the Fred Phelps clan there taking pictures of us and lots of other people on campus days before their protest of our play. They sent pictures to our families saying how we were going to hell. Try explaining that to your father. The wraith of god had come to my household and trying to explain in my confused sexual state that I was straight and not gay by using how they edited that picture using photoshop to squarm my way out of the situation

1) Are you a virgin? No. I waited until I was 20.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? I couldn't put one before the rest, and which is working best varies with time.  Michael Manning's art reliably pushes my buttons.

3) Any Fetishes? Oh yes. Life wouldn't be as much fun without them. I like rope bondage (both tyer and tyee) especially. And tight clothing.

4) Do you drink? Rarely. I'm a light-weight when it comes to drink.

5) What's your sexual preference? Open-minded and experienced.

6) Pet peeves? The unnecessarily prudish.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken.

Hi guys :-) I'm 32, new to the site and love sex. Bring it on!

1) Are you a virgin?
Not since 22 - I was a slow starter.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?
I suppose my least socially acceptable fantasy is acting out incest situations, but I won't go into them because I don't want to offend or upset anyone. I also love being surprised by an 'unexpected visitor' forcibly tied up, played with, then 'raped'. You should try it ;-)

3) Any Fetishes?
Corsets, heels, being whipped, being tied up, vouyerism, being watched, dirty talk, multiple partner sex, female ejaculation, incest fantasy scenarios, needle play...

4) Do you drink?
Minimally.

5) What's your sexual preference?
Mostly women but sometimes I like a bit of cock :-D

6) Pet peeves?
Bigotry and small mindedness.
'Mainstream' people who condemn or eschew consensually open/alternative relationships/encounters while quietly cheating on their conventional partners.

7) Are you taken or on the market?
Currently open to offers ;-)

Anything cool or wild about you?

I like to think so, I feel like I lead two lives, butter-wouldn't-melt girl by day and corseted experimenter by night :-D

1) Are you a virgin? No

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? Receiving sex and foreplay from multiple men, all at the same time

3) Any Fetishes? No

4) Do you drink? No

5) What's your sexual preference? Men, though I do fantasize about going down on other women

6) Pet peeves? Stupid, inconsiderate people. People using letters or numbers instead of full words, like "u" for "you". Ugh.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken and soon to be married

Anything "wild" about you? No, I'm pretty boring and straightlaced. Definitely still a bit prudish in some ways, but I'm working on it. This site has definitely been an eye-opener. Thanks ladies!

1) Are you a virgin? No

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? Have a woman undress me and masturbaste me in front of other women

3) Any Fetishes? No

4) Do you drink? Socially

5) What's your sexual preference? women

6) Pet peeves?stupidity

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

Cool Anything "wild" about you? You like being stared at, flirting
with people you hardly know, macking on your best friend's girl/guy,
etc? I like to masturbate with my blinds pulled up - the thought of
someone watching me gets me crazy :twisted:

1. Are you a virgin? Unfortunately yes, I say unfortunately because I feel old, and all of my friends have all ready gone way pass the stage of awkward first time. Mind you that's not why I wan to have sex, cause all my friends have.

2. What is your nastiest fantasy? Tying up the guy. That always sounds fun.

3. Any Fetishes? Not that I know of. I'll get back later.

4. Do you drink. Only with friends. I have yet to drink by myself but have considered it many times but was too lazy to buy some.

5. What is your sexual preference? Men. But I wouldn't limit myself it the situation occurred.

6. Pet Peeves? Chewing really loudly. UGH!

7. Are you taken or on the Market? Hahaha, would I still be a virgin if I was taken. The answer to that is "No" I would not be.

Cool anything "wild" about you? No, but I dream about it.

Peter: I'm gonna go microwave a bagel and have sex with it.

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1) Are you a virgin?   No..  Oficially lost it to a penis when I was 23, but I “deflowered” myself  (hehehe) as a teenager humping my pillow.. (there was a little blood)

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? I wouldn’t describe them as nasty.. I have several… have great sex while a stranger is watching, a threesome (male and another female), among others… ;)

3) Any Fetishes? No..
4) Do you drink? Socially
5) What's your sexual preference? Men.
6) Pet peeves? Slow left lane driving, misspellings,
7) Are you taken or on the market? On the market

Cool Anything "wild" about you?  Hmmm.. Sucked a guy’s dick in the men’s bathroom during Mardi Gras and got kicked out…, fucking in my friend’s car, fucked in a car at my partner’s workplace (several times),

1) Are you a virgin? No

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? I don't believe any of my fantasies are "nasty". But I do have a fantasy I have never told anyone because I believe they will think it is nasty... I would like to stand over my lover look him in the eyes the entire time, kneel down with one knee on either side of his face, bring his open mouth to my sex and urinate. Before he can swallow I move to kiss him deeply.

Is that nasty? It is so sensual to me.
I even have a soundtrack to go with it: Arms and Sleepers

3) Any Fetishes? Dynamics of masculine and feminine energy and how they naturally intertwine.  

4) Do you drink? Rarely.  

5) What's your sexual preference? Passion, humanity, kink, and honesty.

6) Pet peeves? Bull shit, denial, and physical inactivity

7) Are you taken or on the market? Neither. Just want to explore my sexuality right now. If a partner comes along with passion, humanity, kink, honesty and lets me pee in his mouth then I might be changing my tune. Until then I will be taken with myself! ;)

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1) Are you a virgin? No,lost my cherry at 13 and got pregnant that first time!

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?Being fucked in the ass by a priest

3) Any Fetishes?Am fairly kinky, love spanking of all sorts, also sensation play....

4) Do you drink?Nope, recovering alcoholic

5) What's your sexual preference? Older men with beards, women with beautiful hair.

6) Pet peeves?Lack of affection, and kissing.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

I've been with My Couple for about nine months now, this is after a decade of practical celibacy

after several attemps i have tried to join this site but i keep getting error on the dam "CAPTCHA word ?what is going on ?? i dont see it im not blind ..its not on your sign in page i click on the word option it sends me to another site nor does the audio work sighsssssssssssss
share the secret of joining please this is dam frustrating
ill introduce myself if i can get in

1) Are you a virgin? No, lost it at a drunken college party. Was not great but thankfully I have improved since then.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? Two women, a strapon, and me. We would all be giving and receiving for a whole weekend while feasting on decadent foods.

3) Any Fetishes? toys. Just got an aeneros among one of my faves.

4) Do you drink? Yes but sex is much better sober.

5) What's your sexual preference? women, women and women

6) Pet peeves? Monogamy. Close minded people. Selfish people.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

1) Are you a virgin?

No

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

Sex with 2 men, a girlfriend

3) Any Fetishes?

a liitle spanking, sexy lingerie...

4) Do you drink?

Socially

5) What's your sexual preference?

Someone oozing sensuality, imaginative, generous and a good sense of humour!

6) Pet peeves?

Ugly hands, bad personal hygiene, cluelessness, monotony, beer bellies and sad, bad sex.

7) Are you taken or on the market?

on the market...

Anything "wild" about me?...

I love sex and truly believe that its energy can conquer mountains! I am a well mannered, educated woman who has totally embraced her wild, sexual side. So i feel really well balanced. I am not afraid to seek and get new thrills. Unfortunately, being able to talk about all things sex with people in a casual environment is quasi impossible...and finding sexual partners on the same wave length is really hard. My new year resolution is to make sex a fine-art and my favorite hobby. I would like to learn loads and attend workshops, but there are none around me...so i am hoping to make new friends on this site and enjoy Betty and Carlin's brilliant advices.!! :)

1) Are you a virgin? NO

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

For me to loose the 20 extra pounds I gained from childbirth and be with a man that was not self absorbed. A man who would look at me like I was his steak dinner, and treat me as such. Someone who would actually suck hard on my breast, not just lick my nipples. Be taken by force due to his sexual excitement, not to hurt me. Take charge. Make sex exciting to the point that you get that feeling in your gut, and elsewhere, to the point of one hell of an orgasm. Or two or three. LOL

Outdoors, Beach.

3) Any Fetishes? Ahhhhhhh

4) Do you drink?
Sometimes.

5) What's your sexual preference?
Definately MEN!

6) Pet peeves?
Liars. The way society defines beauty. Self absorbed people. Sex being the same pattern all of the time.

7) Are you taken or on the market?

Married.

Hi Guys,

Working on a longer intro, but looks like everyone is using this, so ...

1) Are you a virgin? No.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?  Going with a willing lady friend for a syntribation tour of Washington, DC.

3) Any Fetishes? Many.

4) Do you drink? Socially.

5) What's your sexual preference? Hetero.

6) Pet peeves? Social conservatives using kinky sex sites (and there are so many of them).  "Family Values" my ass!

7) Are you taken or on the market? On the market.

Cool Anything "wild" about you?  I practice Tantric "dry orgasm": many orgasms, no spurts since March 1 (199 days!).  I will explain.

update 9/27/2011

A lot has happened since I first posted to this forum, mainly the death of a close relative.

The pain will always be with me, but I decided to carry on and work on bringing joy (and pleasure) into *my* life.

Speaking of which, it's now been 941 days since my last release--and I *will* follow up this time.

I am excited to be a new member!

1) Are you a virgin? No. I lost my virginity in high school to my boyfriend of 5 years.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? A threesome.

3) Any Fetishes? I like to try new things but no real fetishes. I like it rough if that counts.

4) Do you drink? Socially.

5) What's your sexual preference? Men, but I have always been attracted to female anatomy. Women are just so beautiful.

6) Pet peeves? Ignorance. People desperately seeking attention.

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

Wild: I have always been a bit reserved but my boyfriends suggested that when we have sex I make as much noise as possible. While it will take some getting used to, I think I am going to like it. =D

Just joined but I'm in

1)Are you a virgin? Nope lost my first nut to a Junior Professor my freshman year of college!

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? Being caught masturbating by my wife. Then punished by her for hours in lots of ways but must include being fucked in the ass with a strapon

3) Any Fetishes? Rope

4) Do you drink? Not anymore

5) What's your sexual preference? All straight real life experience, but bi in my fantasies

6) Pet peeves? Mean people

7) Are you taken or on the market? Taken

8) Anything cool or wild about you? . I would like to try out some crazy things sexually someday. I love art and bike rallies.

My answers:

1) Are you a virgin?

No.

2) What’s your nastiest fantasy?

Extreme bondage, domme doing whatever she wants.  Completely controlled and used sexually by another woman.

3) Any fetishes?  Don't really know.

4) Do you drink?

Not much....but I love a good margarita.  Or even a BAD margarita. With chips and salsa. YUM.

5) What’s your sexual preference?

All my (fairly long) life I thought was strictly hetersexual but recently I've been interested in women more than men.  So maybe I'm bi? Or just curious?

6) Pet peeves?

Bad grammar.  I walk around with a mental red pen <bg>.

7) Are you taken or on the market?  Hum...neither.  Wouldn't mind a non-binding sexual relationship with a woman.  To try it out.

8) Anything cool or wild about you?

I write adventure fiction (aka spy stories) and compete in dog agility.  My dog won the national championship last year.  That's cool to me!

1) Are you a virgin? Yup. And sexually satisfied too!

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? Sex in public. Being caught having sex in public. Flashing strangers. I'm a big time exhibitionist! I also fantasize about spying on unsuspecting people although I would never in a million years act on that.

3) Any Fetishes? I don't know if thunderstorms count, but I love them.

4) Do you drink? Not really.

5) What's your sexual preference? Straight mostly, but kind of heteroflexible.

6) Pet peeves? Intolerance. Specifically, blind intolerance. Even I am intolerant of many things (such as robbery or tax evasion), but I make sure I have a good reason for it.

7) Are you taken or on the market? On the market.

8) Anything cool or wild about you? Nothing super wild, except that I'm very open minded sexually. I would like to try out some crazy things sexually someday. I'm pretty quiet and mild in every day life, though.

And the answers are:

1: Am I a Virgin?  YES...35 and still untouched....by anyone but myself of course.

2:My Nastiest Fantasy:  I often masturbate to this...I am at the doctors for a physical...sitting naked on the exam table..my beautiful doc in her skimpy doc uniform enters....gives me the usual exam tests...notices my cock is slightly aroused...asks me if I'm a virgin...Yes I say...she straps me in the stirrups..spreads me wide...straps on a dildo...and goes at me long and hard...afterwards she leaves me in the stirrups, and the beautiful sexy nurse comes in!!!!!  How's THAT.

3: Fetishes?: I like watching myself masturbate...love my orgasmface...is that a fetish or nasty?

4: Do I Drink?: No...see answer to question #1

5: Sexual preference: Straight with curiosity toward Bi.

6: Pet peeves: Can't think of any

7: Taken or on the Market: On the market, but slightly out of date.

8: Anything wild about me:  I think I'm as boring as white bread, but maybe answers to #2 & #3 make me a bit wild.

see my genital art at: http://dodsonandross.com/art/35-and-virgin

hello, lurker that finally joined.

1) Are you a virgin? No.  Lost it in a back of a car (stranger I met at a club no less) at the age of 16. Was kinda pressured into it from my girlfriends as I was the 'last' one of the gang to lose it. Then back to a motel for a very weird group sex thing. I was too young to appreciate what was going on. Then was kinda a slut for a while in college.

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? It's not as nasty as some, although I love to read the nasty ones posted here. Just fantasize about touching/licking another woman.

3) Any Fetishes?nope, working on it tho

4) Do you drink? yes occassional, not to excess anymore. Don't like sex drunk either, I wanna feel everything and be in the moment with my senses fully there. Don't smoke the herb much either, but my man does. Wanna try sex on X sometime though.

5) What's your sexual preference? straight, but I like to look at sexy women and would like to be with one someday.

6) Pet peeves? dirty cocks or general uncleanliless. Selfish lovers. Someone who can't lick the kitty right

7) Are you taken or on the market?  LTR with my man.

And the answers are:

1) Are you a virgin?

No. Lost it 12 years ago at the age of 16 to a girl of 18.

2) What’s your nastiest fantasy?

Ummm...

3) Any fetishes?

WordNet says “common male fetishes are breasts, legs, hair, shoes, and underwear”. They left out bottoms. I’m a sucker for a shapely, rounded bottom.

4) Do you drink?

Yes, but not much. A few beers at the weekend with friends is usually about all.

5) What’s your sexual preference?

Warm, witty and curvy women. With cute bottoms (did I mention that already?).

6) Pet peeves?

Intolerance. I just can’t stand it!

7) Are you taken or on the market?

On the market, but this isn’t an advertisement.

8) Anything cool or wild about you?

I don’t know; what’s cool and wild to me, might not be cool and wild to you. Some people think my line of work is pretty cool, while others think it’s as boring as hell!

My genital art: http://dodsonandross.com/art/celebrating-it-just-it

1) Are you a virgin?

 No

2) What's your nastiest fantasy? 

Sometimes I fantasise about sneaking into an empty lecture theatre with my guy. When I'm in a boring lecture I scope out the places we could do it. Guess it's a bit strange, but not so nasty.

3) Any Fetishes? 

I like to swallow, does that qualify? After i've given oral I think about it for ages afterward, it has a surprisingly powerful effect.

4) Do you drink?

Yes, I'm a "cheap drunk" though so I have to watch how much! I especially love a beer on a hot summer day. Or a margarita!

5) What's your sexual preference?

I'm attracted to men and women. The ratios switch around a bit sometimes.

6) Pet peeves?

Ignorance about, and disrespect for, other creatures on this planet. Especially the fact that just about everything has palm oil in them these days...you don't want to get me started. Save the Orangutans!

7) Are you taken or on the market?

Taken

Anything cool or wild about you...

I am conservatively unconventional. Sometimes it means I don't really fit into a group and people think I'm a bit odd. I'm comfortable about that. :-)

1) Are you a virgin?

TECHNICALLY, NO...BUT HAVE ABSTAINED FROM PARTNER SEX FOR THE LAST 14 MONTHS...TO GET REACQUAINTED WITH MY SEXUALITY, MY NEEDS AND MY SEX...FEELING READY TO DIVE IN DEEP NOW!

2) What's your nastiest fantasy?

HMMM TODAY I'M VERY KEEN ON DOUBLE PEN WITH A GORGEOUS BLACK MAN IN MY CUNT AND SEX SAMURAI IN MY ASS...PLUS, FOR THEIR COME'S TO BE 10 TIMES THE NORMAL LOAD...ALL OVER ME...DR BETTY WHISPERING ALL MANNER OF FILTH AND LOVE IN MY EAR AS SHE MASSAGES MY FULL BREASTS WITH OIL, AND THEN THEIR WARM COME

3) Any Fetishes?

I'M NOT CLEAR ON THE DEFINITION OF THIS WORD...GOING WITH NO

4) Do you drink?

YES, OCCASIONALLY - BUT AM ALWAYS SAYING 'DON'T MIX BOOZE AND BOYS'

5) What's your sexual preference?

HAPPY, HEALTHY, OPEN, CARING, SEXY MEN AND WOMEN

6) Pet peeves?

IN LIFE: LITTER AND BAD MANNERS

IN SEX: SELFISHNESS AND BAD MANNERS

7) Are you taken or on the market?

EXCITED TO MEET NEW PEOPLES IN THE UK/ALL OVER THE WORLD ON SKYPE

Anything cool or wild about you?

I LOVE WRITING EROTICA FOR MYSELF, LOVERS AND INTERESTED READERS