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Because Girls will Save the World
Posted at 8:01 AM Fri by Carlin Ross
Meet Duro-Aina Adebola (14), Akindele Abiola (14), Faleke Oluwatoyin (14) and Bello Eniola (15) - four young girls who invented a urine powered generator. 1 Liter of urine gives you 6 hours of...
Related Tags: Feminism
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Acne Pill Killed My Sexual Desire & Vaginal Lubrication
Posted at 8:09 AM Thu by Betty Dodson
Hi I'm a 16 year old girl and around 8 months ago I went on the pill dianette to try to control my acne. I was a little bit apprehensive because I'd heard that it can be a dangerous pill, but I...
Related Tags: Lubricants & Vaginal Secretions
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My Favorite Harvey Milk Quote
Posted at 8:02 AM Thu by Carlin Ross
Yesterday was Harvey Milk's birthday.  He only served 11 months as the first openly gay politician before his murder.  I would have loved to meet him.
Related Tags: Sexual Identity/Orientation
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Just Helen Mirren in a Corset
Posted at 1:51 PM Wed by Carlin Ross
It kind of looks like she doesn't have any arms....but it is Helen Mirren in a corset.
Related Tags: Erotica
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I Have Very Little Feeling in My Clitoris
Posted at 8:31 AM Wed by Betty Dodson
Hi Dr. Betty, I'm a 28 year old female and to get right to the point I have very little feeling "down there". I can sit and fondue and finger myself for hours and feel as calm as I would watching...
Related Tags: Clitoris
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Let’s Grow Up & Stop Destroying Families Because of Sex
Posted at 7:44 AM Wed by Fateh Alix Born
There’s a really endearing scene in Grey’s Anatomy where two young doctors try to have a discreet conversation about sex in front of a patient. April says “I told him I’ve never been to the carnival...
Related Tags: Relationships & Polyamory
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It Takes Me 45 Minutes to Orgasm :(
Posted at 8:57 AM Tue by Betty Dodson
Betty - I realize that you are of the opinion that taking a while to orgasm during masturbation is a great and wonderful thing, but when it takes me 45 minutes to an hour to come, I get frustrated....
Related Tags: How to Enhance Your Orgasms
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Suck a C*ck on Camera...Denied
Posted at 8:50 AM Tue by Carlin Ross
Americans consume more pornography than any country in the world...the Bible Belt consumes the most. I believe that porn consumption tracks directly with sexual repression. When we make something...
Related Tags: Pornography
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Remembering Sandstone
Posted at 8:55 AM Mon by Betty Dodson
I had many good times at Sandstone - a consensual sex club and nudist community on the West Coast in the early 1970s.     Nudity means that we are who we are.  Otherwise, we're in...
Related Tags: Betty's Memoir
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When My GYN Inserts the Speculum the Pain is Unbearable
Posted at 8:20 AM Mon by Betty Dodson
Dr. Betty, I am 22 years old and a virgin. I currently have to go to the GYN because I'm on oral contraceptives for my acne and horrible menstrual cycles (heavy heavy bleeding, major cramps, etc.. I...
Related Tags: Pain During Penetration
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Punched in the Asshole
Posted at 8:06 AM Mon by Carlin Ross
Reid Mihalko is one of our favorite "sex geeks".  I remember the day when Betty shared this story...she was a bit chagrined.  She doesn't know what came over her but she did punch Reid in...
Related Tags: Anal Play
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Nudity is the Healing
Posted at 9:13 AM Sat by Betty Dodson
Not many New York women know that it's completely and totally legal to go topless anywhere & anytime as long as it's for a "non-commercial" purpose.  You can't charge people to look at your...
Related Tags: Breasts
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Due to Disability We're Limited to 2 Sex Positions. Any Resources on the Topic?
Posted at 8:31 AM Sat by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, I am in a loving and beautiful and sexy marriage with an incredible man who also happens to have a physical disability. He uses a wheelchair and cannot walk, but he has full sensation in...
Related Tags: Disability & Sex | Sex Positions
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Christy Turlington: I Can't Wait to be 50
Posted at 5:02 PM Fri by Carlin Ross
Christy Turlington is a 44 year-old supermodel who hasn't had any plastic surgery and doesn't plan to...ever. In her latest interview with Harper's Bazaar, she confessed that she "can't wait to be...
Related Tags: Body Image | Menopause & Sex After 50
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Hours of Fun = Hours of Ouch
Posted at 8:40 AM Fri by Betty Dodson
Hi Betty, I have noticed that the first few times I'm with a new person we spend A LOT of time being sexy together. Like hours in a row. This seems normal because we're getting to know each other's...
Related Tags: Lubricants & Vaginal Secretions | Pain During Penetration
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