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Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

We are two women dedicated to providing sex information, education, and entertainment to support people's health and wellness through sexual expression and self-pleasure. Dodson and Ross: Empowering Women One Orgasm at a Time!

Clit Talk & Multiple Orgasms

From elongated labia and clitorises to whether you can see your hymen in a mirror, we answer all your anatomy questions: 

Sexual Rights for Disabled People

My dear friend Tuppy Owens has worked tirelessly for the sexual rights of disabled people in England. Her new TLC Trust website www.tlc-trust.org is devoted to connecting disabled men & women to responsible sex workers, therapists, & teachers. This is one of the most important and humane developments in recent social history.

The front page covers 50 examples of how the disabled community would benefit from having access to a professional sex worker. When these two stigmatized groups connect, the sexually-deprived experience bodily pleasures and sex workers gain a renewed pride in their work as they rescue disabled people from personal anguish, sexual purgatory and touch deprivation. In the UK, they are currently campaigning for the continuing legality of buying sex. The USA needs to do the same.

Eric's First Play Party...


6:27 minutes (5.91 MB)

Not everyone gets this sort of invite.  And you have to come prepared like our Eric Amaranth does with a packed case of Liquid Silk, an Hitachi Magic Wand, and Betty's Barbell.  And let's not forget about giving breast massages with Almond Oil.  

If I Get My Clit Pierced, Will I Have Bigger Orgasms?

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I have read of body piercing at the clitoris. I am intreguied by this. Do they actually pierce the clitoris or just the tissue around the clitoris? Is this harmful to the senstive receptors of the clitoris? or does it intensify the sensations? Is it helpful for an orgasim? or harmful? What is your recommendation on this matter?

Hugh Jackman Sexiest Man Alive!

Gotta give it to the Aussies!  I fell in love with High Jackman as Wolverine in X Men (I'm such a geek that I fantasized about Wolverine watching the X Men cartoon).

The best part about him is that he's a real guy.  There's no pretention...no player bs...and he always looks so sweet with his little girl.  

And then he has that glint in his eyes like he's up to some naughty business.  I can't wait to see him in Australia.

Rachel Zoe: From Size 0 to Size 8

Rachel Zoe spoke to Vanity Fair about her frustration with being seen as responsible for the new skinny craze in Hollywood: 

"We've had Audrey Hepburn, we've had Twiggy, we've had Veruschka, we've had Kate Moss. I'm trying to figure out why I am to blame for skinniness." 

Things are a changing. Bazaar recently photoshopped Zoe's photos to give her more curves.  As a woman with a phat ass and healthy hips, I'm loving this backlash against the Size 0 phenom.  And the reverse photoshop thing (usually they cut your arms in half) is just wonderful.  Sandwiches for everyone!

Will a Clit Pump Make My Clit Bigger?

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My female partner and I recently decided to buy a clitoris pump for our personal use. I have always told my partner that I wished to have a bigger clit, not that I envy a penis but I just think my clit is too small.

I would like to know if it is safe to use a clitoris pump to enhance my size and what's the best way to use it. How long a time of use would be considered safe for my clit??

Miss Vera's School for Boys Who Want to Be Girls

My dear friend and colleague Veronica Vera has written on of the best sex books around.  The title is Miss Vera's Finishing School for Boys Who Want to be Girls.  

The Daily News www.dailynews.com covered our Vee Vee and her Finishing School for Boys Who Want to be Girls. She always looks amazing!