Sexual Identity

Posted on the Jan 08, 2017 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty, I am 17 years old and I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend, although I've always been in romantic relationships with boys, until now. One thing I know for sure is I've always been...
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Posted on the Sep 12, 2016 by bila kolbe
I’ve been thinking…how autoeroticism and homoeroticism can be viewed as being not that very different. Consequently, might acts of self-love, such as masturbation, connote to some degree an innate...
Posted on the Aug 04, 2016 by Betty Dodson
Dear Dr. Betty, my bf is straight so i always thought but we were talking about our biggest secrets and he said about 20 yrs ago he got drunk and high and had sex with a man. Ar first i was freaked...
Posted on the Jun 22, 2016 by Carlin Ross
I think we can all agree that our binary two-gender system leaves little room for personal happiness.  Strict gender roles are more than discrimination against the LGBT community.  The...
Posted on the Jun 17, 2016 by Carlin Ross
We are all just sexual.
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Posted on the May 23, 2016 by Lisa Kan
I am a really good liar. I spent most of my life lying. I lied in middle school when I spent the summer having sleepovers with my best friend. --Our all-night makeout sessions were just an...
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Posted on the Apr 08, 2016 by bila kolbe
There are some horrendous laws being enacted here and abroad criminalizing masturbation and imperiling LGBT people. My best friend, someone I’ve known for over fifty years, is transgender. She has...
Posted on the Mar 29, 2016 by bila kolbe
America’s premier advice columnist, Dear Abby, received a letter from a distraught young woman. While going through her fiancée’s iPhone she stumbled upon some gay porn sites. Concerned about her...
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Posted on the Mar 15, 2016 by Carlin Ross
Xena was the best sapphic erotica/bad ass women show on television EVER.  It was everything I wanted from Charlie's Angels as a girl but had to wait for until the 90's.  I loved that show...
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Posted on the Jun 26, 2015 by Lawrence Lanoff
I once heard a phrase, “There is nothing so powerful as an idea whose time has come.” So on this day, in which the Supreme Court of the United States legalized gay marriage, I say it is true. “There...
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Posted on the Jun 10, 2015 by Carlin Ross
DC Comics just launched their new comic featuring an openly gay superhero Midnighter.  Not only does he use Grindr when he's not fighting crime, but he has steamy sex scenes with plenty of...
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Posted on the Dec 30, 2014 by Betty Dodson
Betty, I appreciate your straight forward, candid approach of breaking down all these barriers and just putting it out there like it is. So as I am discovering, I am one of the more rare here. I...
Posted on the Dec 21, 2014 by Carlin Ross
Marlene Dietrich is one of my all time favorite actresses.  In her film Morocco, she fought for a scene where she donns a tuxedo, sings a song and kisses a woman in the audience.  She...
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Posted on the Nov 25, 2014 by Carlin Ross
I love this clip of the gay wing at LA Men's Central Jail. I had no idea that they were had "gay" wings in the prison system. The outfits...the family atmosphere...the creativity...their culture is...
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Posted on the Oct 17, 2014 by Bjorn Bjorn
HIM: Great to hear from you Sir, and I would love to explore less typical ways of experiencing the Dom/sub dynamic. Since it's mostly all in my head, the more subtle the expression, the more exciting...
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