Sexual Arousal & Desire

Posted on the Nov 29, 2011 by Anonymous
We keep making these comparisons between the current nascent protest movement in Western culture and the 1960s. One involved an explosion of creative culture and an anti-war movement complete with...
Posted on the Nov 27, 2011 by Anonymous
I post this film with a certain degree of hesitation. It is a French documentary that claims to explain the female orgasm, and naturally it is called "The Female Orgasm Explained". I watched it a few...
Posted on the Oct 31, 2011 by Eric Amaranth
New female clients, married or in a long-term relationship, tell me how heavy their burden is with frustration and dread vis a vie sex with their partner. There has been an accumulation of...
Posted on the Oct 11, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty, I am a 20 year old female and for the last 4 months my interest or sex drive has jumped ship and I don't know what to do to get it back. I have tried masturbating, using my vibrator and...
Posted on the Oct 09, 2011 by Solo Sexualist
For the past week, due to personal issues, my boyfriend has been staying over at my place.  He hasn’t been sleeping in my room, but we’ve had plenty of opportunities to have sex....
Posted on the Oct 08, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Good day to you Betty! First things first I want to apologize for asking a potentially useless batch of questions, but I couldn't seem to find the answers to them while searching around your site....
Posted on the Oct 04, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Today I read a recent post by Dan Savage entitled "Broken". The question begins with: "I am a 23-year-old female, sexually active for seven years, and I can’t reach climax. I am extremely frustrated...
Posted on the Sep 22, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Betty, I am writing with a slight twist on a question you've answered several versions of (and received god knows how many times). I'm a 35 y.o. man, married 11 years, 2 young kids, love my wife....
Posted on the Sep 21, 2011 by Anonymous
So, you have read the previous posts in my sexual dysfunction series, and you have decided that you, dear reader (or someone you know), may have a sexual problem/dysfunction. Now what? If you are...
Posted on the Sep 17, 2011 by Marisa Black
One of the parts I eagerly anticipated about the Bodysex filming was the smell. What would it be like, I wondered, to be naked and aroused with a circle of women masturbating? Not only what would it...
Posted on the Sep 07, 2011 by Anonymous
The year was 1856, and Dr. Horatio Storer was a busy boy, burdened as he was with two very trying patients - a couple of thoroughly intractable nymphomaniacs. Which, within the context of Victorian...
Posted on the Sep 01, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, Ever since my first child was born I lost the intrest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into...
Posted on the Aug 15, 2011 by Solo Sexualist
From the second time I had sex (sex being intercourse) onward, I’ve always had at least one orgasm, and I've been fucking for half a year. Yesterday, that changed.  I was horny...
Posted on the Jul 21, 2011 by Anonymous
Currently, there are two popular ways of thinking about female sexual dysfunction: the traditional DSM-IV perspective that sees it as a medical disorder and a New View approach (which I will be...
Posted on the Jul 14, 2011 by Lawrence Lanoff
This blog is a further exploration of my last post about female sex drive. My friend Reid reidaboutsex.com and I were talking about sexual relationships, and he had a brilliant realization that he...