Overcoming Shame & Guilt

Posted on the Feb 15, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
On the heels of The President’s State of The Union address, I wanted to speak today about The Sexual State of The Union. As far as sexual rights go, I am literally overwhelmed by the continued war...
Posted on the Feb 05, 2013 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty, I was raised in a very sex-negative, abusive environment, and was then raped repeatedly when I was 14 while in a domestically abusive relationship for about 5 months. I feel that I...
Cathrynn Brown
Posted on the Jan 24, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
It is a twisted form of logic, one that potentially imprisons female victims of incest and rape for having abortions, that is behind state Rep. Cathrynn Brown’s (R) House Bill 206. In classic double...
Posted on the Jan 23, 2013 by Anonymous
One of my few guilty pleasures (as in I actually feel pretty guilty about it) is celebrity gossip on the Internet. This is not a plug for this site, because I think it's disgusting* but I frequently...
Posted on the Jan 14, 2013 by Lawrence Lanoff
We can always be our own worst critics. However, recent studies show that being hyper-critical of ourselves can be detrimental to our health. So now I’m going to let you in on a secret. My biggest...
Posted on the Dec 31, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Friday night I was eating at my favorite late night Hollywood Thai dive. Next to me was a table of Thai boys. Very gay Thai boys meeting up after the clubs closed. And I thought to myself, “how...
Posted on the Dec 24, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
It’s Christmas time. You know what that means? It means it’s time for the de-bunker to call-out Santa. Hey, at least I'm an equal opportunity myth de-bunker. So, here’s the problem with all myths...
Posted on the Dec 21, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I was talking to my girlfriend about the end of the world. She’s visiting family across the country and I’m in LA. She said, if the Mayan’s really were right, that we would each start driving across...
Posted on the Dec 13, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
It’s been a while since I've blogged. I’m balls deep in the cave writing my latest book. But I had to come out of the cave to make the most public statement I can make here on Dodson and Ross. Are...
Posted on the Nov 06, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I’m just home from the Yoga, Sex, Feminism conference in Dallas. It was incredible - beyond my expectations-and my body is abuzz with energy. I love being around people who get that pleasure, bliss...
Posted on the Nov 04, 2012 by Betty Dodson
What a way to support World Vegan Day! Thanks Mark Simpson. I'd eat up everyone of those Darling Macho Dick Swinging Men:
Posted on the Oct 31, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
I have an idea. And I’m going to share it with you in a moment. But first, I want to talk about a change that I see happening in the myth of the female psyche. The current myth is that open female...
Posted on the Oct 13, 2012 by Anonymous
There have been times in the comment sections here that people have made broad statements about Christians being uniformly sex negative and blindly promoting abstinence-only sex education. When I see...
Posted on the Oct 12, 2012 by The Intern
Three months ago I told Carlin that I'd bought two and a half hours of tantric massage and I was going to blog about it. There were no available times until October, so of course I forgot. Until two...
Posted on the Oct 10, 2012 by Lawrence Lanoff
Ahh, the power of difficult discussions. I’ve been thinking about something sitting like a splinter in my consciousness. It’s about ownership. Ownership of the vagina and the womb. What I am...