Menopause & Sex After 50

Posted on the Apr 04, 2011 by Carlin Ross
I found this picture cruising around the blogosphere today and had to post it.  I love his little butt and her pear-shaped body - how they're enjoying the moment.  All nudity is beautiful.
Posted on the Feb 22, 2011 by Anonymous
In case anyone is wondering about my date, here’s the update. The wind was so ferocious; I almost didn’t make it to the car. Is this an omen? Maybe I should just beg off. Actually, before I got out...
Posted on the Feb 22, 2011 by Betty Dodson
I had a hysterectomy 2 weeks ago. It was a total because of pre-cancer cells. My question is when is ok to begin using my wand again? I have no sexual desire at this time but am very nervous about...
Posted on the Feb 22, 2011 by Betty Dodson
My dilemma is this: My wife and I have been married for 37 years. I am 74 and she 61. We have enjoyed a full and varied sex life and still make love around three times a week. However some two years...
Posted on the Feb 18, 2011 by Anonymous
I have a blind date this weekend!!! First in three years. I thought it might be amusing to tell you all what some of my very intelligent and accomplished girlfriends told me to look out for and –...
Posted on the Feb 12, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty -- I'm in a happy, monogamous relationship with a wonderful man. But I'm 55, I've had a total hysterectomy and because my ovaries are gone, I have to take low-dose estrogen from now on....
Posted on the Feb 02, 2011 by Lawrence Lanoff
I was doing a phone session this week with a woman in her 70s who was complaining of sexual dysfunction. As I began tuning into my client, I noticed that there was a very thick heaviness around her...
Posted on the Jan 27, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, We cannot overcome painful intercourse. we are both 55. I think it is a combination of thin vaginal walls and frequent yeast infections. It is only one spot. My wife comes with the...
Posted on the Jan 19, 2011 by Betty Dodson
Hello Dr Betty I wanted to tell you that my wife and I had a major breakthrough the other night and had a long discussion about our lack of sexual activity in recent years.  We're both in our...
Posted on the Jan 10, 2011 by Betty Dodson
I was married for 38 years without any sex for the last 20 years except for masturbation. I was able to have orgasm with masturbation up to about 3 years ago. I am 60 years old and have gone to...
Posted on the Jan 08, 2011 by Betty Dodson
The question, “What do I want to be when I grow up?” is not that much different than asking, “What do I want to be when I grow old”? Recently I realized that growing pains are part of the creative...
Posted on the Jan 05, 2011 by Betty Dodson
I just turned 59 and I still get very horny so desire is not the problem, but satisfaction is. My clitoris seems to have "dried up". I have tried new vibrators and new lubricants. My Doctor has put...
Posted on the Dec 13, 2010 by Betty Dodson
My spouse of 38 years has developed a wound on her clitoris that actually bleeds. We engage in mutual masturbation on a weekely basis, especially since my prostatectomy for prostate cancer. Since...
Posted on the Dec 13, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Hello Betty This is very long but I wanted you to have the full story. I’m sorry. I’m 63 years of age and reasonably fit. I exercise regularly but probably eat and drink a bit too much. My wife began...
Posted on the Dec 10, 2010 by Betty Dodson
Dear Betty, I am super happy to inform you that the barbell has become essential to our marriage. I am 66 and my wife 67. We have some foreplay and then she uses the magic wand and barbell...