I never had a hymen...Betty never had a hymen. When I shared with my mother that hymens thin out and break apart with the release of estrogen during puberty, she was relieved. She was a...
Dear Betty,
I was raped as a child on more than one occasion. I don't know exactly how many times, because not all of the memories are clear, but they all took place within the same couple of months...
I apologize if this is a strange question, or if it makes little sense, I don't know how to word it exactly. I was reading an article some time ago about the hymen and how it isn't really what most...
I wrote to you a while ago asking you why you thought I was afraid of sex/men, and whether it had anything to do with the pain I'd experienced for years as a result of having a thick hymen, or...
hey Betty,
I hope this finds you well and all set for Kissmass. I need to pick your brains on something. My daughter has decided she wants to try tampons instead of pads. So we sat down on the...
Yes I'm 21 yrs old and I want to break my hymen painlessly. I know how but I don't have a dildo I'm trying to do it with my finger. I'm able to insert my whole index finger inside me. When I pull out...
Hi Betty,
I just first off want to say that ever since I discovered yours and Carlin Ross's youtube videos, and then your website, you have educated me so much and also made me feel way more...
Hi there, Dr. Betty
I'm a young woman, and I recently discovered this website through a couple of sex positive blogs I've started following. I started following them because I'm becoming increasingly...
Some years ago, I had a friend confide in me that sex hurt. And we're not talking postcoital rug burns here but intense pain. From what I could gather, it sounded like vaginismus, which is an...
Hello Dr. Betty,
I seem to have a problem with my vaginal opening, it's covered by various sized flaps of skin. Not thin skin, either, they're a little thicker than a quarter. Now, I've taken a lot...
I was almost 24 before I lost what some people refer to as my “virginity”. But that I mean that I was almost 24 before my hymen was broken. And I broke it myself. I broke it myself so that someone...
A colleague sent me this clip and I love this man. Prof. Dr. Erwin J. Haeberle, EdD.,MA dispels the myth of the hymen. My favorite line: "Virginity tests are stupidity tests. They...
Hi Dr Betty!,
Here I go with another question for you. This one is about vaginal tightness. I have noticed when I use a bigger toy, it doesn't stay in. It's like my vagina pushes it out. This gets...
Every one I know has been sending me links to stories on the forced "virginity tests" in Egypt. Nothing like the opportunity of a revolution to justify sticking your fingers in tight, young...