General Stuff

By popular request, the section for everything that isn't a rant, confession, fantasy, sexcapade, etc etc.

My bf can smell me when I'm getting turn on

Thu, 01/12/2012 - 06:48
Submitted by Lilmissy

Ok my bf can smell me.. Even if im just a little turn on he can hug me & smell my neck & just know when I turn on around him & he hasn't been wrong yet .. He said lot of his guy friend they can't do that but some how he can smell the pheromones I put off ..he says it smell like sex sometimes it kinda sexy when he just know. Get close to me & just breath Me in ... I dnt have to say anything he just knows when I want him .& him smellin me turn him on & so yes it alway leads to something sexual ...we are very close & sexual .alway cuddling &kissing ..I can't help but to be turn on by him sometimes :)

But dose anybody else companion do this ? Can they smell when your gettin turn on??

The pill and libido

Fri, 11/11/2011 - 11:37
Submitted by Jake E

I'm thinking that perhaps the healthiest form of heterosexual sex learns from Sapphic experience of mutual masturbation involving hands and toys and creative imagination. This means both partners can enjoy sex with no pregnancy concerns and a woman can come off the pill and live with a totally natural hormonal balance and libido. Ideally when deciding to include intercourse it's natural, skin to skin with the intension of having a baby. 

Has anyone come off the pill and noticed a change in libido?

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Posing Nude : Not Drawing = Not Seeing?

Wed, 10/05/2011 - 18:03
Submitted by nanha

So, as the post became a bit long I will put my question first:
Why do artists in nude drawing classes follow the principle of trying to draw what they see (proportions, position etc) but abandon this principle when faced with the genital area?
Is it cultural? Don't they look there? Or do they just not draw it? What do you think?

I tend to think it's the second one, because when I was participating in a class, I was very interested how the models looked.

The longer story: Yesterday, I posed nude for the first time and it was an amazing experience. I felt very comfortable and I wasn't even nervous. - Who would have thought ..
Anyways, this thread is about something Betty already mentioned.

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Just some general observations and the steady state orgasm.

Thu, 09/22/2011 - 02:04
Submitted by Heylin

I am very happy to be a self sexual and partner sexual woman. Most of my problems arise with partner sex. Let's face it, masturbation is like taking a drive by yourself. If you make a wrong turn, or want to stop every hour to urinate, it's not like you have to answer to anyone. I view my masturbation as time to explore my body or try different flavors of orgasm. But hell, sometimes, it's just 5 minutes to have a tension orgasm to get through my morning. The way I see it is that no orgasm is a bad one and no time spent loving myself is wasted.
But partner sex, now there is another human being's feelings, thoughts, and limitations to consider. There's also the baggage you might bring to the table with your partner, and then there's the funny stuff.

Peace, quiet and affection

Mon, 07/11/2011 - 02:14
Submitted by Heylin

Maybe I should have put this in the rant section, who knows? What I do know is that lately my body has been starved for affection like a bulemic right before a binge. No amount of touch seems like it would be enough.  The other thing I know is that my mind has been jittery and anxious lately (too much caffeine? hormones gone out of bounds?). I have this feeling of loneliness that goes to the bone. Orgasm alone is not helping. I feel the need to express myself but the words can't form themselves. I probably want more partner sex but I am so tired of always having to initiate it. I'm also tired of inititating plain old affection. Hubby says he loves it when we just hold each other, but he never approaches me about it.

How do I start dating?

Fri, 07/01/2011 - 03:31
Submitted by Miss. Chief

Yes I'm married, but my husband and I do not have a sexual
relationship.  He has given me the OK to date other people, and for the
past two years, I had a wonderful kinky lover, however he just moved
away.  I'm bereft,  and at a complete loss of how to date.  I met my
husband when I was 17, and my lover practically fell into my lap at a
spanking party.  I've had no experience with dating, or casual sex, and
am looking for sage advice.  I do have profiles on OK Cupid, and have
even placed adds on craigs list, but to no avail.  I do not know how to
navigate this new territory, and am afraid that after my sexuality being
turned on, I'll lose my mojo.  Help!!

Quiet desperation

Wed, 06/29/2011 - 20:46
Submitted by Anonymous

I suspect that when Henry David Thoreau wrote the quote:

“Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them.” 

 

most likely Thoreau wrote literally about the male species and men not as a synecdoche.  If he had written the same today

he would definitely have  included women.  As is witnessed on this website as well as so many other venues women

live that same  lonely and desolate desperation probably with many songs still in them but most will never be sung

Drug.

Wed, 06/29/2011 - 01:13
Submitted by Jake E

If you had to write an online dating profile...what would you say?

Thu, 06/23/2011 - 03:04
Submitted by Heylin

If I had to write an online dating profile...what would I write? I've never given it much thought because I'm not looking to date but Mssaigon's post about that guy with his laundry list of demands made me wonder. I would probably list some things I liked/disliked so that I could save people some trouble. I would also be honest about what I looked like. Probably make a list of things I actually like to do on dates or dates I think would be cool. I don't think I would post any of my sexual interests because I'm old fashioned enough to want to meet a person and see if the chemistry is there and build the sexual tension. So below is my make believe online dating profile and I'm curious to know what yours would be.

Stress-relieving masturbation

Tue, 06/14/2011 - 20:58
Submitted by kbmead

I just gave myself 4 full orgasms in an hour.  So great.  A little anxiety-reduction for me, as tomorrow I'm having surgery to remove a polyp from my uterus, and a cyst from my labia.  I figure afterwards, I won't be up for much fun for a few days, so I had my fill today.  Now she's ready for a rest!

We should let them stay as they are.

Mon, 05/09/2011 - 09:56
Submitted by Jake E

Love this little video. I really hope when she grows up she can be just as shameless and guilt free and hold the head of someone she likes and kiss them and make her move and get what she wants without critiscism or that  it's a sign she's surrendering control to him.  She also looks a little like Carlin :)