Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
Hello Betty,
I'm now 19 and am lucky enough to have been following your work, and have become somewhat of a fangirl.
My question is a bit odd but I'm hoping you can shed a light on it. I am female bodied and identify as female. I find that I'm squirting significantly after I orgasm, it can be a few minutes, but sometimes even hours later. Sometimes it happens because of a cough, sneeze, etc. and sometimes it just happens out of nowhere. My partner doesn't know I can ejaculate and doesn't like female ejaculation, so it's really stressful leading up to it. I usually have no sign it's going to happen. it's not an often occurrence, either.
Thanks!
Dear N,
Now even Barbie squirts...
I'm not sure which part of her squirts but someone in the marketing department at Mattel is quite clever.
This site, with the exception of some of Eric's posts, is highly anti-female ejaculation in my opinion. I want to find fellow FEMjacs (female ejaculators). In the dictionary ejaculate only refers to males so I will be using FEMjaculate, FEMjaculation, and FEMjac or FEMjaculator etc.
Please share your story. Here is mine. :)
Hi Eric,
I have an odd question. I had a pretty nice experience last night.
Amrita flooding! I wondered if you knew if female ejaculate can also
take on the scent of asparagus a bit like urine does (after a woman
eats it of course)?
I am not sure if I had a little accident when I was cumming or not.
=)
Phoebe
Hi Betty,
When I am using my hitachi (which I Love) I sometimes pee, i can't help it, it just comes out. Is this normal? Should I see a doctor or tell my gynecologist? Also I don't know if I orgasm because I can't feel my internal muscles flexing, but it feels great! I love sex with my husband, it feels amazing but I never feel those muscles pulsing or flexing, either during sex or when I use my hitachi. Thanks for any advise you can give.
Thanks,
Dear R,
As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. There is no such thing as having a bad orgasm- they all put a smile on my face. Maybe the vaginal orgasms that I managed to squeak out in my twenties would classify as G's. Some were quite accidental and non-repeatable. Others required a thirty minute erection owned by a handsome young man who promised he'd only have sex with me. Oh yes, I had to get on top and Ride ‘em Cowgirl, which wasn't easy in the fifties and early sixties. They called us "ball busters" back then.