Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
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Betty's Vaginal Barbell |
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My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir - EBOOK EDITION |
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Betty Dodson's Bodysex Workshop DVD |
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Betty Dodson Liberating women one orgasm at a time |
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Carlin Ross Sex, Politics & More Sex |
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Eric Amaranth Sex life coaching, real life erotica, and wellness |
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Lawrence Lanoff Reality Hacker. Sex Educator. Geek. |
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Liandra Dahl Sex Documentarian |
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LilithLand Women, Sex, Culture & Relationships |
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cajun sausage Lovin' Dr. Betty since 1996! |
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Christina Cicchelli Professional Pervert |
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Danny Wylde Male. Libra. Whore |
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Dr. Lulu History & the Material Culture of Sex |
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Emily and Ju Queer love |
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Eric Francis Astrology & Adventure |
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Jenn Parenthood. With Cursing |
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Jessica Kramer Liberating Birth |
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jexhibitionism |
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Kasini Poet. Educator. Catalyst. Mother. |
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LesleyS Redefining my sexual self after babies. |
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Logan Levkoff sexologist, sex educator, intellisexual, author, mom |
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Marisa Black Finding room for all of me |
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Marylou Naccarato Learn how to raise your level of “Sexability” |
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Palesa Art + Sex + Media + Empowerment |
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Princess What would my mother say? |
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Solo Sexualist |
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VirginMonoblogger Thought all virgins were the same? Think again. |
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WildOrchid A selfsexual, toy loving, possibly bisexual total virgin |
This pic was posted on reddit - apparently, you can't masturbate in the US military showers in Afghanistan.
At least they were creative with the sign.
Joel Smart describes the origins of circumcision in the United States:
"The true origins of circumcise are seemingly lost in antiquity, although many theories exist. However, in America, non-religious circumcision became popularized only in the mid-1800s during the highly puritanical Victorian era. Although there are many ideas as to why the practice is done today, the original motivation was to prevent children from masturbating (which was called self-abuse at the time, due to the belief that it caused disease, insanity and death).
I have several.... tens of blog entries that I've started but I haven't finished for several reasons. I either get stuck, lose interest in the subject, or realize that I've already talked about something too much akin to the topic that it would almost be a rearranged re-post. The following post is a mash-up of about four entries that I've started and never finished. It was pretty irrelevant for me to tell you that...
Taylor Momsen rocks my fucking socks. I didn't know kids these days had such fantastic ideals (says the moderately sexually liberated freshly twenty one year old masturbator). One of my good friends linked me to this quote by her:
Hi,
First I would like to say that I am so happy I discovered your site! I have learned so much and am becoming far more comfortable with myself. As for my question...When I was about 13 I got the idea to use my electric toothbrush to masturbate. It was amazing and I have used it since (I'm 20). Outside of laying under the shower faucet this is the only way I have ever had an orgasm. I'm very concerned that masturbating with the electric toothbrush may have damaged my clitoris and made me less sensitive there.
Is it possible to lose sensation in the clitoris from masturbating this way and how can I regain sensitivity?
Thank you!
Dear J,
1. According to David Buss and Cindy Meston in their best-selling book Why Women Have Sex, women who have smaller breasts are more sensitive to erotic stimulation than their more endowed sisters. Plus, breast sensitivity tends to decrease with age in all women.
The internet is the greatest thing to happen to foreskin in America. Why? Because men and women can finally see that most men in the world are not circumcised. If you got every male in the world in one room to strip naked and did a count, there would be more men with foreskin than not. A penis with a foreskin is the norm. It's also fascinating to see that the foreskin looks like a woman's labia and vice versa. Just like the labia protects the clitoris, the foreskin protects the glans (cock head). So may I share with all of you my modest but normal, uncut, uncircumcised, intact cock.
Hi,
I have an issue that is stopping me from having an orgasm. My clit is very very sensitive. While the pleasure builds and I naturally lubricate, my clit gets more and more sensitive to the point where it hurts so much that I (or my partner) has to stop because the pain cuts through the pleasure. The super sensitivity doesn't just end there though. I get it inside too. There is nothing medically wrong with me (I've had all the swabs and tests), I'm just really sensitive. Does anyone else have this problem and if so, do you have any strategies that might help me overcome it?
I also have a bit of an embarressing reflex when I (or my partner) hits 'the right spot'. My leg twitches! Please tell me I'm not the only one so I can get over the embarressment!
It's been a long time since I've been on here. I wasn't sure if this was a rant, confession, or really what this would be called so I've just filed it under "general".
The last time I was on here, I was going to add a 2nd upload to the genital gallery. I had spend an entire afternoon trying to come up with decent angles, lighting and settings to artfully show my penis. I wanted to show it. I was proud of it. When I logged on to share it, I realized the geintal gallery was taken down. I can't put into words how devastating this was to have my previous submition removed. It led to so many horrible thoughts not limited to self hatred and shame.
What do you think of the Denver bill raising masturbation to a misdemeanor if you're caught in public. If convicted, you would be placed on the state's sexual-offender registry. Sponsored by Rep. Steve King.
Hey all, I know it's been a long time since I blogged last. I've been busy with life and being in Betty's latest erotic sex ed streaming videos. I'll blog about my experiences on the set, as the male model, but first, below is a reply I made to Chantale, a user here on the site, who replied to my blog post on ovulation and how it turns the allure and sexual hunger up in women. It's about the Fun Factory Smartballs, during ovulation. Read on...
As Betty said, "it's about my finger on my clit". Partners only enhance your orgasm because no one knows your sex organ better than you. But we do love their fingers and there's nothing like staying at the opening ;) Did I mention that Betty shared her new fantasy game?
Masturbation has been the most pleasurable activity in my life. In fact I’d go so far to say that my penis has always been my best friend. I loved playing with it from as early as I can remember and was amazed by the fact it frequently became erect and hard and provided me with countless hours of pleasure.
At around 5” my cock isn’t very big but no-one has ever complained about its lack of size. I try to keep it looking good and trim my pubic hair to keep it neat. I have a number of cock rings that I use to pull my balls forward and press them against the underside of my cock (see photo). I find it increasing my pleasure when I masturbate.
I found my husband/partner of four years masturbating in the shower last night. After confronting him about it this morning, he says he has had a problem with doing it since he was 15 (now in early 30's), masturbating once a day till we started going out seven years ago when it decreased to 'minimal'. I know this is probably really common, but as a Christian I was bought up believing pretty strict things about sex (most of which I threw by the wayside during my teenage years), so masturbating in marriage was pretty abhorent to me, but I understand it more for single people.
I know by now you're probably outraged by my views but that's what they were till a few hours ago when I started looking up masturbation on health websites and wikipedia!! I realise that it's extremely common and beneficial (I did it when I was trying to induce labour with our son, so I've done it before), but my concern is the long term ramifications on our marriage
Hey!! I know it's always the same,..and i think i already know the answer for my specific problem. But maybe you know a better one. I get no orgasm, even if my friend licks the pussy..it feels good and then it feels like im close. but doesnt work. the problem is, when i masturbate, its only possible to get an orgasm in a very strange position. I close my legs and brace them and then i stimulate the clit. But how can i free myself from this ONE position...
Hey Betty,
Well I'm 19 have had sex a couple of times and can't orgasm. I have been masturbating ever since I was a little girl but haven't orgasmed. Am I doing something wrong? I used to think that I masturbated for a couple of minutes and that lengthening the session would help. This didn't though. Should I invest in a vibrator?
