Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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We'd already turned off the DVD player and my girlfriend had stripped herself down. We'd made out on the couch together after watching a few hot sex scenes, and it came to me to kiss her with the same kind of kiss she'd seen the characters on-screen do. It brings more kick to the mental-erotic put in her mind by the movie. It was a very slow kiss. The character kissing the woman on screen was making sure she felt every aspect of her lips. I held the same intention and it was very well received.

Night before last, my girlfriend and I settled down together to watch some good quality adult video. First we watched a scene with three young women who started on the floor together drinking orange sodas and hanging out. The conversation turned to sex and of course, "Have you ever had sex with a girl before?" It was staged, but it was done believably, which you don't see very often.

Here is some more of my real-life sex erotica.  It's based on what I'd call "a One Day Stand" with a late twenty-something we'll call Vivian. She's a past lover I haven't seen in a while and lives in another state. Sometimes I write erotica long after the sex, sometimes sooner. When inspiration hits, I go with it. This post has some good sex in a hotel advice too.

Since I wrote part two of this series, I've been told how me writing erotica on advanced things like threesomes is a bad idea for several reasons: It doesn't apply to most people's sex lives. That it makes me look bad as a professional. That it alienates, intimidates, and scares off those who are just approaching sexual enjoyment for the first time.

I could make a good counter-argument on these concerns, but that's for another day. Because I also know some of you out there are of the opposite viewpoint: "I can't wait! Gimmie aaaaall the details with hot fudge and a cherry on top!" So, for all those not ready for dessert, come back to it another day when you are; or never ever, and that's okay too. Those who are ready for their homemade sundaes, take spoon in hand and read on!

I've been a fan of Kim Kardashian's beauty and body from the moment I saw it. Her outward personality as well. Yes, I got a copy of her sex tape when it came out via Vivid. Her incredible naked body being sexual and the opportunity to see what Kim's perfect face looks like turned on and then way on, but also her skills.

Her oral sex skills shined. Seamlessly coordinated, multi-faceted technique. When Ray J. came, she was using a short, back and forth plus hand-rotating stroke with her hand plus her mouth glued right to the top of her hand. Her lips stroking over the coronal ridge with every head pump. I teach this style to clients and lovers; use hand and mouth together, like the treble and the bass. Her double-fisted rotating stroke was excellent too.

Here is the link to an article I wrote on some of what I teach for clitoral stimulation for a site I'm a part of called www.yourtango.com/proconnect

At the end of this month, I'm going to do my first class teaching pregnant women and their partners about how to enjoy sex more before birthing. My presenting partner is the group www.babyzonenyc.com.

I was encouraged to not go into teachings about breast erotics with the class participants because there are apparently already too many cases where new moms are choosing not to breastfeed their babies because the feelings of the sucking can naturally arouse a woman and cause fluttery-pleasant uterine contractions. Reportedly, the last thing these women want is to feel turned on with their baby. They opt for formula in a bottle instead, so I'm told. I agreed to keep erotic breast stimulation off the menu for my presentation. I want to comment on this situation and ones like it, a topic that Betty Dodson and I have discussed off and on over the years.

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the
first time in their lives.

Lora asked me how the lighting was. Brighter? Lower? I told her it was just fine. That I wanted to see all of her low-lit body. Lora and I don't kiss. Well, not yet. We do share generous portions of warmth and desire for each other.

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the
first time in their lives. 

It wasn't the first time Lora and I'd been together. We'd played with just gloved hands and condomed blowjobs once before. She sent me a text a week later saying,

"Heya-- you got a compliment from the bf today. He says my bj skills have improved notably since you. Kudos. :)"

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the
first time in their lives.  

This
blog entry is based on email feedback I received from Samantha on the night we hung out at a sex-themed bar then bolted to the nearest bedroom.

Olivia and I woke up together and after she seduced and emptied my cock of its come by hand and voice, (next blog post) she came back to bed from washing all the come off her hands and arms and said,Olivia and I woke up together and after she seduced and emptied my cock of its come by hand and voice, (next blog post) she came back to bed from washing all the come off her hands and arms and said,

"Will you vibe me?"

I was washed out to sea with oxytocin and morning drowsy.

"Hmm? Vibe you?"

"Yeah, I just had the idea. Use a vibe on me. The orgasm will keep my cramps smoothed out today."

"Um, okay!"

 My lover Samantha introduced me to this sex toy. Both my teacher Betty and I have been skeptical of vibrating cockrings and past hands-free clitoral vibrators. This one rocked Samantha. I rolled the condom down, lubed my shaft, then, down went the Double Dolphin. Samantha fucked my cock at the same time she fucked herself and wouldnt stop coming and moaning with her pretty feminine sex-voice.

Hands-free is often frustrating, but this sex toy makes it so Samantha pushes and grinds down against me to get what she wants and needs on her very big clit. Both of her hands could lean her weight against my chest... and both my hands could feel, squeeze, and grip her C+ and gorgeous natural breasts. Lovers across the board are loving both breasts under my control while they ride me and play with clit one way or the other.

Hello all. I often utilize my blog to write, with each lover's permission,
on the sex I'm having in real-life. I do so of course for the sultry
entertainment value and also to illuminate for those who want to try this at home.... Read More.

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