Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
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Here is the first part of my sex life coaching client Rachel's erotic journaling on her fist foray into roleplay sex as a dominant woman doctor. The topic of one of our sessions was how to create a roleplay doctor fantasy she'd always had and surprise her husband with it. The help I gave Rachel was in how to make the roleplay realistic and believeable. It can be easy sometimes to get a little cheesy, which can disrupt the roleplay's erotic potency. It pulls you back to an awareness that it's not real. Not hot!
Inspired by your revealed fantasy in last weeks podcast, here is mine. You've got a "scoop".
It is lunchtime and I just skied from La Masse a 3650 meter high mountain in Tignes, France. I am warm from the the morning action and the adrenaline is high. In a cozy bistro where the ski instructors take their half hour lunch break before going to the next class of students, I take my jacket, headgear, gloves and ski glasses off, go to the bathroom, reset my hair and put magenta gloss on my lips. I take the first layer of my top cloths off and I am in my black thermal sweater.
I am male, 42, hetro.
I have been having fantasies lately that my father and I are
together satisfying and loving a very beautiful young woman. Is this
normal? My father passed away some years ago. I don't know why I am having these now?
I have had many incest fantasies, but they are not with
members of my real family because am not really turned on by my
relatives, but instead these relatives are idealized generic parental or sibling units.
It started with the Ask Dr Betty questions and 2 "Dodsons". Yes, we're workaholic party girls who know that "dog f*cking" is the 3rd most common search term on the site and that women are afraid to poo during intercourse. But isn't that why you love us?
2009-03-27
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So this was a fantasy "letter" I wrote to someone I'm involved with... so when it says "you", it was originally aimed at a specific person- but you can substitute yourself for fun :)
One night sharing a pipe we got the idea that "Betty" should interview "Carlin". Sober and menstrual I beared all...even my darkest sex fantasy.
I started masturbating in my early teens, but I wasn't having orgasms (or at least I didn't think I was). In my mind, I never orgasmed until a few years ago (I'm 21), and this was with a guy who I had been fooling around with for a while. Soon, the orgasms became regular (only during oral though.) Now I am with someone new. He's very affectionate, he loves to please me, and is constantly looking for new ways to give me pleasure. We've been together for a year. I have an orgasm every time he goes down on me (which is happily quite often), and I've been able to orgasm few times from manual stimulation. My problem is that sometimes the lead-up to the orgasms are not that great. During foreplay, I find myself constantly becoming distracted with external thoughts.
I'm a 45 single male.
The first time I masturbated to orgasm was in the bathroom adjacent to my bedroom. I'd just turned 13 and I loved Penthouse and fantasizing about being ravished by my mum's friends. I decided to use vaseline to lube my cock and help me stroke it. I was on my back on the bathroom floor and had an amazing seizure as I stroked at the end of which there was a white goo that had squirted from my young dick.
love & be creative
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Hi Betty,
I have been masturbating on a regular basis. I have a few questions that I hope you can answer. i like to masturbate while looking at images of womens legs in pantyhose and focus on mainly their legs. Is this a good thing? When I do masturbate I masturbate with my penis still covered in my underwear and pants. Im afraid to stroke my
penis with a bare hand?
Dodson & Ross answer all your questions on sexual fantasies from the incest taboo to bi-sexual yearnings for your sister-in-law. It's all healthy and it's all good. Merry Christmas!
We answered your questions on first-time lesbian play, mutual masturbation, and sharing your sexual fantasies.
I'm a huge vampire fan and, of course, have fantasized about having a vampire boyfriend. Twilight did $70 M this weekend and I wanted to know more about the woman behind the story. Who would have thought that she was a new mom, heard her characters talking to each other in her head, and was totally hot for her vampire protagonist? Stephanie Meyer is the real thing:
I woke up (on that June 2nd) from a very vivid dream. In my dream, two people were having an intense conversation in a meadow in the woods. One of these people was just your average girl. The other person was fantastically beautiful, sparkly, and a vampire. They were discussing the difficulties inherent in the facts that A) they were falling in love with each other while B) the vampire was particularly attracted to the scent of her blood, and was having a difficult time restraining himself from killing her immediately.
I am a man in his 50's. My 25 year old daughter has just moved back in with us after a bad split with her long term boyfriend. No problem there, but the other week, I was trying to tidy the house and found a porn magazine called Fiesta under a pile of magazines on her bedroom floor, at first I thought it was odd that she would have a "girlie" magazine, until I looked through it and saw a full spread of HER, leaving nothing to the imagination. I knew she had done some modelling, but was unaware that it was this kind of thing. I was so angry, then when my anger passed, I found myself becoming aroused whilst looking at her, to the point I went to the bathroom and masturbated over her images. I felt remorse as soon as I had done so. I am so confused over this whole issue, she is my daughter for christ sake and when she is here, I don't and never have looked or felt about her in that way.
I'm attracted to my husbands' brothers wife. We are very close and I've been having a fantasy about her. It always makes me have a wonderful, enjoyable orgasam. I'm wondering if I'm bi-sexual? If given the chance I do believe I would jump at the chance to be sexual with her. Any comments? Thoughts??
