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Hello,

Is there some women-only spa out there that has Bodysex groups?  Or something like it?  That would be the ultimate vacation...

I just realized that my login name needs to be changed as it is way to obvious and not compelling to any privacy or anonimity.
Is there any way to do that or any one that can help me!!!!

i donated $10 a few weeks ago to have streaming accses to the documentary. i see it's out but i don't know where to go to watch it. please help.

Just wondered what people thought of this. I am female and graduated from university in the UK this year. I've masturbated for years just with fingers. At one point in my 1st year I experimented with something inside me. 

I had a banana and a few condoms in my bedside drawer and it seemed like a good idea at the time. Unfortunately, I left it lying around and left my room for a few minutes, during which a flatmate found it, which I didn't know at the time. Nobody questioned me about this directly, but I sensed people talking and had to endure a few snide comments. I figured that someone found it and thought it would blow over eventually. After all, I didn't think I had done anything wrong and not everyone who knew acted differently around me. 

Hi, everyone,
What would you advice for a mother whose child is talking about having sex with her and is touching her tits, when they lie in the bed and doing things like that? They still sleep in the same bed most of the time, despite he will turn 14 soon. This is maybe because he was always "the little child" as he is disabled, having a bit of physical disability and his mental development being not very fast (now it's like 7 years old or so). The father does not live with a child for 10 years and has too little contact. The mother is recovering from her mental disease, so it's double hard for her to control him in many ways: to control him go to sleep, not buy him anything he wants, do not let him touch her tits or reach her vulva.

I havent had much sexual experience so i hope someone out there has some type of answer. The other day I was with this guy, and we ended up having sex. The thing is that I didnt get to finish. When we were at it I had to stop because the pleasure was too intense to handle. I could tell it was bothering him that I couldnt. Ive never experience an orgasm so i dont know if this has to do anything with not being able to handle the pleasure. Its kinda like being tickled it doesnt feel bad but you want it to stop. I really want to keep going and make it a good time for me and the guy. Anybody out there know what im talking about? Anyone have any suggestions?

I have wondered about this, as I have seen photos of women's breasts, & most don't seem to have hair growing out of their nipples, they have nice smooth boobs & areolas, & no hair.

My partner and I have been together for 3 years, and we enjoy a regular and fun sex life. Prior to our relationship, we were both single for a period of time - in his case, nearly 15 years, which I think may have a bearing on my question! I'm in my early 30s, and he is mid 40s.
Basically, my guy loves gentle, tender sex and can last for anything up to an hour. He helps me climax, and enjoys fantasy, so honestly, why am I complaining?? Well, I'd like to make him come sometimes. As things stand, sex tends to end with him masturbating (pretty furiously!) while I hold him/talk dirty/hold his balls etc., and then 'blast-off'... but I can't make him come with my own hand (or my pussy!).

There are a number of ways to last longer during sex, some natural, some medical
Ejaculation control exercises can train you to become familiar with your mental and physical arousal, helping you last longer.  For more on the exercises, check this out
In tough cases, a low dose of an SSRI, like antidepressants help too
what ways do you use to last longer in bed?

I feel embrassed writing this, but its true. I've never really had the best hygiene for many reasons. Part of the reason is, I feel that if I was clean, it would mean I would have to be repsonible for myself, be an adult. By not being super clean (btw I mean this about myself not others), I don't have to own up to anything, take care of myself, etc... I want to have sex, but I just think about how unclean I am*, how not pretty my body is, and who wants that? I hope this doesn't sound dumb, but I feel silly for not knowing how to properly clean my cunt and anus. I know your not supposed to use fragrant soap. Plus, it feels scary cleaning myself, it just sucks being afraid of want you want, and being afraid of being a badass.

Ok. I am in a long distance relationship and when I do get to see my man I normally visit him a few days before my period to be safe. My periods are normal and usually on time but I've noticed since I've met him that the day after I first have sex with him my period comes on. And this weekend it came on a week early. Why does this happen? He is not hurting me. I am thoroughly enjoying it. I have multiple orgasms but things have had to be cut short now because my cycle starts usually the next day. So back to this weekend, it came on immediately after sex but then went away, we didn't have sex the next day and my period had seemed to stop, but the day after we had sex again and immediately my period came on. Does anyone have any ideas why this might be happening? Thanks in advance.

I need some advice, guidance, anything. Over the past months my PMS has gotten to be out of control. I can barely tolerate myself, nor can the people around me. Moody, angry, suspicious, depressed, exhausted, insomnia, bloated and overly emotional are the issues I'm dealing with. The physical symptoms are easier to deal with, but the mental ones are brutal. I feel completely unlike myself and I'm scared that I'm going to alienate the people around me. I hate having to say, 'sorry, I'm PMS'ing'. Does anyone else deal with this? What helps for you? I see some herbal combinations and am wondering if anyone has tried those.  I'm not crazy about taking the pill, either, though I know that's probably going to be everyone's first answer. Thanks for your help!