Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I am a 48 year old woman, I have a delicious boyfriend with whom I enjoy a totally free and satisfying sex life. We both especially love to give each other oral sex. I love sucking his cock, and he has told me many times that I am "yummy" and that he loves to eat my pussy. When I kiss him after one of our sessions, I don't really smell or taste anything. Being curious, once when I was by myself I decided to see for myself how I really taste, and I found that my cum was very neutral and not at all unpleasant. It really turned me on to taste myself and using my own spit as a lube, I came really hard. I continue to enjoy this method now and again for self pleasure.
I would like to read about others who enjoy this.

I've been in a monogamous relationship for 5 1/2 years. I love my husband and wouldn't do anything to hurt him. But. I am increasingly finding the urge to find a new sexual partner (man, woman, who cares, just so they're clean!). I want to experiement. To be blunt. I've never had the "amazing sex" that some have with their spouse. My husband and I have good sex, sometimes great.But I want us to have AMAZING sex.
I also have a legitamit fear that my father's philandering may be genetic. He cheated on my mother notoriously. And I was old enough to know what he was doing, I even met one of his girlfriends. So, while I want to experience sex with other men/women, and I want to do that with my husband around to participate in group sex, I am afraid that it will lead to infidelity on my part.

I've been thinking about chemistry and what really turns me on. Looking at a hot body might cause a flush to the genitals but that is usually shortlived. What really gets me ready to rumble is the way a man smells, well other things have to be present, but if we are close enough to kiss and all of the other measures of attraction have been met, the right kind of odor just really turns me on. Not heavy cologne, skin washed with soap mixed with the natural scent. The scent of my husband's hair really excites me, we both use the same shampoo but something about his scent is this subtle spicy musk that I love. It makes me relaxed and horny. There have been maybe 2 other men besides my husband that made me just want to inhale them. Phermones?

On a 5 hour drive by myself, I started masturbating as I was driving down the freeway.  I was wearing a skirt, so it was easy to be discreet.  Kept my eyes on the road of course, but I couldn't get myself all the way there safely.  So, I looked for an exit that seemed to have a deserted look to it, and found one with empty roads and farmland.  Guess what the name of the exit was?  DODSON ROAD!  I turned off onto a little side road in front of a cornfield, and had a lovely orgasm.

It happened to me twice. The first time, many years ago when I was about 18, I was over at a friends house for the night. We had just finished a movie, talking about possible girlfriends and sex and stuff. On top of that my friends Mom who was a pretty good looking 40-ish woman, was making sure we had all the beer and  chips and dip etc. we wanted. Her husband was away and she was into some wine herself.
It felt that she was being overly-solicitous to us, especially me, and for a moment I had that funny feeling that I If my friend hadn't been there, she might have put a move on me.
So after all this, I was thinking about some relief of my sexual tension and I knew exactly what I wanted to do.

As this is Masturbation Month maybe others would like to share some of their experiences in masturbating in public places or in other unusual or kinky locations, doing kinky things.
I know other D andR members have discussed this in the past but its always stimulating to hear other people's stories.

As for me, I  sometimes go into the woods and find places not close enough to be seen from the trail. In such places I  get off by slowly taking all my clothes off, including socks and shoes and I walk a ways thru the woods totally naked with my hard-on growing and flopping around between my legs. The further I get from the safety of my clothes, the more danger and the more aroused I become.

Last thursday,I had major surgery on my wrist.Mike is the physician assistant with the orthopedic surgeon that performed my surgery.I have know Mike for 5 years,he is a great guy,gorgeous,and all around good person.He also happens to be my present boss's son.Which really makes it tabboo.

Well it took me a while to return to the D and R site. For a while, I was a bit embarrassed that I had told such explicit details of my sex life in my first post on 2/11/2010: "It's never too late".