Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
I think this clip sums up virgin anxiety. No, you're not going to be good at sex the first time. It's going to feel unfamiliar. And it can f*ck up your life. But it's one of the most rewarding experiences on the planet. So be safe and start experimenting:
Hi Doc.!
First, I'd like to say thank you for providing me with such a wonderful and positive website upon which to stumble in the middle of the night. This is so much more than what I was expecting when I first clicked. I finally decided to join and submitted to the Genital Art gallery. So anyway, here's my question. I'm a 35 year old male without much sexual experience. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 27, and it was a terrible experience. Since then I've had one other awful one-night stand and two short term girlfriends with whom I had sex more than once.
And I would add that the majority also have extramarital sex:
At least nine out of 10 Americans, men and women alike, have had premarital sex, says a new report. And premarital sex isn't new -- the high rates include the sexual habits of women born in the 1940s, challenging the idea that sexual behaviors used to be more restrained.
Sex has apparently become something of a young American habit. "It's hard to stop the evolution of that urge," said Judy Kuriansky, a sex therapist, media personality and adjunct professor of psychology at Columbia University Teachers College in New York.
The report, published by the private Guttmacher Institute in New York, challenges the thinking behind government-funded programs that rely primarily on abstinence-only teachings. The study, released Tuesday, appears in the new issue of Public Health Reports.
It started with the Ask Dr Betty questions and 2 "Dodsons". Yes, we're workaholic party girls who know that "dog f*cking" is the 3rd most common search term on the site and that women are afraid to poo during intercourse. But isn't that why you love us?
Dodson & Ross take on 20-something virgins, why we love teabagging, and "weiner in the bun".
Hi Betty and Carlin!
I had a question re: the video Virgins, Teabagging & Sexually Repressed Republicans. You mentioned giving contact information about sexual surrogates to a virgin. I am a virgin myself. I am a 29 year old straight male. I had a lot of shame about sexuality when it came to women. I was so terrified of being called a pig or an asshole or a creep that I never made an effort to have sex with a woman. I've been doing a lot of work of my self esteem and I think I'm ready for sex. Could you forward me contact info about sexual surrogates?