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How Do We Go About "Swinging"?

Wed, 03/02/2011 - 14:29
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi there,

I really like your style, really! Ok here is the issue. My boyfriend and I have done a bit of group sex like threesomes a couple times. O.K. so its been fun for both of us. But, the feeling is that its been like a real good appetizer and going for the main course is going to be real swinging and swapping.

Sooo, two thoughts/questions are dominating our thinking. The first one: is a long term relationship dangerous? I mean I like the idea of having a regular couple, not just one time flings, wouldn't this be better?

The second question is age, we are mid 20's, I really like the idea of swinging with older people 40's or 50's, but then I think a turn on is one thing, but you have to also be social. Is too much age diffrence a problem?

4 Reasons Why I Love Missionary Position

Thu, 12/09/2010 - 19:51
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

I'd like to introduce you all to Rebecca Ammon's blog. Much like mine, it reflects her erotic joys and sometimes inconvenient details on real, in the field sex. After reading a few of her blog posts, I'll say I'm impressed. She's another one of the few talking sex from her real life and utilizing it to inform as well as heat it up.

This particular post makes clear another bit of sexual reality--> many men are lazy in bed. They want her to get on top and run everything too often while they lay on their backs relaxed and enjoying the ride and show.

How Do I Put Together a Threesome for My Boyfriend's Bday?

Wed, 12/08/2010 - 14:34
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty! Love reading your new memoir, by the way!

I'll dive straight into it. It's my boyfriend's, whom I love, birthday this weekend. We've been talking about having a 3some with a friend of ours for a while. He and I have already negotiated boundaries and both want to do this. I have had a 3some in the past before him. My boyfriend and I have been involved in flirting with this friend for quite a bit now. I'm aware that she likes my boobs and knows that I want her. She's super hot, and I want to make this happen for his birthday. I think he'd like the surprise.

How do I go about asking her if she'd like to be involved? How do I plan this evening at his place?

Thanks!
B

Dear B,

How Do We Seduce as a Couple?

Tue, 04/07/2009 - 20:14
Submitted by Betty Dodson

My man and I have wanted to branch out into threesomes with another female for a long time now. We have great sex and are not at all shy with each other... problem is, we're both a little shy when it comes to trying to find another female to join us. I don't even know where to begin... I know the internet can be a good resource for shy people and I have tried it some, but most women seemed turned off by the idea of joining a couple and I can never get any to agree to meet us. I have also tried to find women who might be interested on my own, but again most seemed turned off if I ever even mention the idea of letting my boyfriend watch or join.

Any ideas on how we might be able to meet women who would be interested in being our third? Places to go, lines to use?