Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
From a reader: "Do you have to do that with every one night stand? It's more or less instilled in me because that's what happens when you learn something for the first time. It's still not clear to me (asked around, read things) what the reasons behind that request were, and if it is "standard" proceedure or common sense. To my knowledge, this subject doesn't come up with the blog contributors on D&R when they are having sex. You recently mentioned it in your video podcast as a side remark."
Dear Betty & Carlin -
(Who better to ask than your wonderful, wise, slutty selves?) I am a 58 year old who has been with one man for 12 years, and before that, with another for 9. Now I am being single again, and having to think about safe sex.
I know, of course, about condoms for intercourse, and heard you both extolling the virtues of finger play, and mutual masturbation, but what about oral play? Can sexually transmitted disease be passed through sucking cock and eating pussy? Any tips and advice?
Also, and advice, in general, on my situation?
thanks much!
A
PS - you guys are the greatest! Blessings on your good work!
Dear A,
Dear Dr Betty,
I am finishing my last year of university and, due to study costs, have started working in a "rub and tug" massage parlour where I apply myself in oil, massaging and sliding over a male's body before performing hand relief.