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Fri, 07/23/2010 - 06:34
Submitted by jenson

It's been a long time since I've been on here.  I wasn't sure if this was a rant, confession, or really what this would be called so I've just filed it under "general". 

The last time I was on here, I was going to add a 2nd upload to the genital gallery.  I had spend an entire afternoon trying to come up with decent angles, lighting and settings to artfully show my penis.  I wanted to show it.  I was proud of it.  When I logged on to share it, I realized the geintal gallery was taken down.  I can't put into words how devastating this was to have my previous submition removed.  It led to so many horrible thoughts not limited to self hatred and shame. 

Is It Selfish to Want Partner Sex?

Fri, 08/01/2008 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Betty:

I have read and enjoyed your website for years and purchased many products over time. I appreciate your candor and straight forward advice, with which I agree most of the time. As a 57 year old male in a 35 year monogamous marriage, I think you missed something in your advice posted on line referenced above. WHAT ABOUT THE HUSBAND? I readily agree that from my perspective it is a selfish question, and one you have answered several times in the past. I think women should be advised of the pain from physical and emotional withdrawal her husband is going through, and given some advice on how she can ease that pain if she wants him to stick around to assist with her illnesses.