Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
Please help! I'm 26 years old and my sex life with my boyfriend is being ruined! I keep getting really sore through sex to the point where we sometimes have to discontinue. I've been tested for all the STD's and I'm all clear. I'm on the pill so we're not using condoms, so its not an allergic reaction to them.
I've never really had this problem before and although sometimes our sex is rough, I've had rougher and bigger guys. Granted sometimes it happens when I'm not maybe in the "right frame of mind" for sex and a little dry, but it also happens when I'm really turned on and very wet.
Let me first say that I love everything you have done for the sex-positive community. Your hard work and dedication are inspirational to me!
I seem to be having a problem which has never before arisen. I am currently dating a man with an incredibly large penis (about 9-10'' long, and about 5" around), and as a fairly petite lady, this sometimes creates some discomfort for me. After sex, my inner lips become extremely sore and swollen, to the point where they puff out from my outer lips like little balloons, and I experience general vaginal soreness for 2-3 days afterward.