Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
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Dear Dr. Betty,
To start from, thank you! Recent discovery of your website and books have been a life changing experience. You must have answered a number of similar questions already, but then I decided to write to you anyway, thinking it can be quite a therapeutic exercise.
Part 1. Background and anti-masturbation childhood.
Dr. Betty,
I'm 42 and divorced and have been sexually inhibited most of my adult life. I'm in a new relationship with a wonderful partner and he's asking for more participation from me. I'm very quiet, not much sound at all, even when I do have an orgasm. He wants a little bit of "conversation" during sex and I'm also very shy about that. I love him, I want him to be happy and I really would like to do the things he's asking me to do. How do I get around my inhibitions? Also, I've never, ever had an orgasm during intercourse, only with stimulation of my clitoris. Is this something that's wrong with me? Am I doing something wrong?
