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The Successes and Realities of Joyce's Sex Life, Married with Children

Mon, 04/11/2011 - 13:03
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Below is another email correspondence between me and my sex life coaching client, Joyce, whose continuous sexual growth I've blogged on recently, wrote this to me on the reality of her married life with children and the impact that had on her sex life. Again, all clients I blog on have their names changed and give me express permission to do so. It doesn't get more honest and real-life than her account and I think many married women in her bracket of life, and their partners, will resonate with it.

A Beginner Sex Life Consulting Client & Condom Clarification

Thu, 04/08/2010 - 20:55
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

I've blogged on several of my sex life consulting sessions and clients. So far I've written mostly on medium to advanced clients who chose to do the guided sex sessions. No posts yet on basics level clients choosing just talk teach ways to learn. They are also represent the majority of my client base. Today's blog is on one of those, also my youngest client ever at 22 years old: Rebecca (name changed).

Practically a Virgin & Need Advice on Sex with Women

Thu, 10/08/2009 - 19:17
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Doc.!

First, I'd like to say thank you for providing me with such a wonderful and positive website upon which to stumble in the middle of the night. This is so much more than what I was expecting when I first clicked. I finally decided to join and submitted to the Genital Art gallery. So anyway, here's my question. I'm a 35 year old male without much sexual experience. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 27, and it was a terrible experience. Since then I've had one other awful one-night stand and two short term girlfriends with whom I had sex more than once.

Need Kissing, Masturbating, & Partner Sex Pointers

Thu, 12/11/2008 - 16:30
Submitted by Betty Dodson

hi betty.

i'm young, a freshman in highschool, and it seems like everyone but me is so experienced! i don't even know how to kiss right, if there's even a right way to. all i can think about is sex but i can't figure out how to get rid of my insecurities and get started. first off, i'm scared that a guy will take one look down south and run. how do i know what it's supposed to look like? second, i masterbate using that pressure thing you guys explained, is it bad to keep doing that or should i step it up a notch? i've thought about fingers but i feel like they're gonna be bitten off if i stick them in there. haha. third, what do guys expect?

How Can a Guy Become a Better Lover?

Wed, 11/05/2008 - 19:46
Submitted by Betty Dodson

In other advice posts you offered a woman to "move on" from a former B/F who became a lame lover... your own Historic relationship account you pondered if you "might be addicted to self love..." I related. I'm a man who starts off a relationship passionately, then it fades away rather quickly. My last relationship lasted four years. The last 18 months sexless. Where may I learn specifics in being a more attentive, better lover as a man? Do you offer your therapies for men with these problems?

Desperately Seeking Clit Skills

Tue, 10/21/2008 - 17:59
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Thank you for your website! It's great and very informative. My questions is regarding oral sex on my girlfriend. We have a great sexual relationship. Part of that is that I love giving her oral sex and enjoy all her juices. She also loves to give me oral sex to the point that I don't have to pull out to ejaculate. When I give her oral sex she says it's relaxing. Sometimes she has orgasmed but most of the time she says she prefers my penis. I'm not complaining and neither is she. I just want to know what else I can try that will cause her to orgasm most every time. I've tried several techniques and concentrated on her clitoris and even inserted a finger looking for her G-spot. She says it sometimes reminds her of a GYN visit.