Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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My good friend and fellow sex teacher, Tallulah Sulis, is putting on her first selfloving-focused sex party for women only in Oakland Hills, CA this Saturday.

This reminds me of my mentor Betty's Bodysex groups she did during the 80's and early 90's. The Bodysex groups were education-based sexual gatherings of women where Betty guided the group through a wide variety of activities from group discussions to live vulva viewings, sex education, female masturbation teaching, and finally a group masturbation circle on the final day where the women would apply the skills learned first hand and share in the group's sex energy with all its sounds and sights.

There I was. My first play party in over a year. I've been exploring play parties as a community-driven way of educating people on how to talk about safer sex more powerfully and how to practice better safe sex. The opening circle, where we introduce ourselves and say a little about our sensual desires and boundaries, wrapped up and the party began. There are too many sights, memories, and moments to include them all. However, a few notables:

I watched a group of women and men take a vanilla-complexioned blond wearing only powder-blue hose and garters from fingers sliding slowly in her ass gradually up to a hot brunette's lubricated fist twisting slowly at the wrist and pumping gently in and out. It was her first time fisting a woman's ass, and a round amazing ass it was.