Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
Betty and Carlin,
I would first like to say that I think that your website, and the work that you both do are necessary and helpful tools for women to explore their sexuality. I am writing you both in regards to my own sexuality.
Dr Betty,
I actually was a virgin at the time of my rape and it was my first sexual experience ever. Anyway I have a new relationship and he is experienced but we have not gotten sexually intimate yet. He wants to make sure I am ready and wanting to do this, he is willing to wait. My question is, what do I need to expect when I do become intimate with him? Will it be as difficult as if I hadn't had sex at all or what should I do to make it easier for me my first real time? How can he make things easier for me as well?