Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Before I begin part three, here is a good comment I made on one of VirginMonoblogger's posts dealing with what I do to make dirty talk like slut and whore sweeter along with the erotic sting, or what I say if those words are never positive for my lover.

It was the last day of shooting. We planned on me doing some masturbation plus the Aneros prostate massager in action, showing how to use it and yes, a heterosexual man enjoying it while still coming out the other side... heterosexual. I quote Ray Stevens on this one: "Oh, the miracles God has wrought in this old world!" A guy can do a very similar, if not in some ways better, method of prostate stimulation with the g-spotter Magic Wand attachment and a Hitachi Magic Wand. That way you get strong vibe and direct prostate massage. The trade off is the wand and g-spotter are a bit more challenging to use than the Aneros. However, I do remember the day I was in a threesome where I was missionarying with one woman while the other massaged my prostate with the g-spotter/wand combo from behind me. Talk about fast uncontrollable orgasm.

Then it suddenly occurred to me that on the Aneros website and others like it, there are already vids on the net like this. Nothing new. I'd never seen a video showing a woman using the Aneros inside her man while giving his penis lots of due attention.

 Here's my third Sex Toy Erotica piece on the Aneros. The story will give you lots of ideas, but I can say this straight away: first, not all women have the hand size to comfortably, easily, and effectively perform internal prostate massage from an angle where the man is on his back. This happened to me just recently. On his knees with head down is best for those cases because gravity will aid you and the flesh of his bum will be open and will be much less an inhibiting factor with regards to bumping into it with your hand while trying to go deep inside him with your finger.

[i]The Aneros solves all that. For solo use, it makes prostate stim much easier for the guy and he can use one inside himself while his partner concentrates her or his focus on his penis. Not to mention the health benefits of occasional prostate massage in the fight against prostate cancer. I've read an article by my favorite alternative doctor, Dr. David Williams, and his "Alternatives" newsletter advocating prostate massage. I was impressed with him when he printed that article at all. It wasnt in a sensual context, but the info is the same. I also love it as a sensual exchange between a man receiving it and his partner that isnt strictly intercourse-related. Enjoy the erotica!

hi eric (or whoever screens these),

i'll keep this short, as i'm sure you get many emails.  i just wanted to know if you could give some advice...or at least point me in the right direction. i'm a 28 year old man... and have only had sex with 2 people.  currently, i've been with the same partner for a number of years...and we have sex a couple times a week. My dilemma...i feel like i'm the only man who has trouble cumming. 

i cum fine, when jacking off, but during sex, it takes forever....most of the time my partner gets worn out, and we have to stop before i cum.  most guys want to take longer to cum, i want to cum quicker...is something wrong with me?  are there any techniques for men that could help me cum quicker?   can you help me?

I laid down on my back with my knees up while Kara positioned herself between my thighs. I put a pillow behind my head so I could admire my curvaceous, impromptu student and her slender hand moving perfectly on my cock. I gave her some Sliquid Organics Natural Lube for her left hand, then relaxed my anal muscles while I helped her find the center of my rosebud with the pad of her index finger.

“Now. Just press in with the flat of your finger and make slow circles until you feel the muscles have relaxed.”