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We Share a Certain Understanding of How Our Cultures Repress the Sexuality of Women & Queers of All Genders

Mon, 07/18/2011 - 12:52
Submitted by Emily and Ju

We're Emily and Ju, two new bloggers for the site who will be bringing you posts about a number of things, including genderqueer and trans identities, kink, porn, and the intersections between these things.

Though we have different identities and come from different cultural backgrounds, we both share a certain understanding of how our cultures repress the sexuality of women and queers of all genders. As such, we'll always try to bring a strong intersectional feminist analysis to our writings.

So you can get to know us a bit better, we'll take a moment to introduce ourselves individually !

Cameron Diaz: I Love Porn

Fri, 02/25/2011 - 16:29
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Can't you just see Cameron and Arod f*cking in front of their flat screen - I wonder what they like to watch:

Personal Thought On Porn

Miss Moonlight's picture
Fri, 04/10/2009 - 01:30
Submitted by Miss Moonlight

Just a few personal thought here, so please don’t shoot me
down in flames.  I see nothing
wrong in adult non-violent porn per se but I think it does often send out the
wrong signals:

 

It often suggests that most of us climax through constant
thrusting alone;

It can lead to suggest that we are expected to make very strange
noises during sex;

Condoms are rarely seen so the safe sex message is not there;

Lube is hardly ever seen to be used, even for anal suggesting
that it will just slide in;

Foreplay – what’s that?

Is Porn Bad?

Nina's picture
Mon, 01/26/2009 - 22:10
Submitted by Nina

I was surfing the web this evening, and I found this comment posted on a forum.

Sluts....Threesomes....and Vibrator Addiction

Fri, 11/21/2008 - 22:27
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Dodson and Ross tackle the slut stigma and answer all your questions on threesomes, cheating, vibrator addiction, porn, and eating cum. 

My Husband Watches Porn And It Makes Me Insecure

Thu, 05/15/2008 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

My husband looks at beautiful women and porn a lot on the internet. We have a normal sex life. I'm 65 years old and attractive for my age and do just about everything sexual with him. He'll even look at women and porn after we have had sex. I'm insecure about this. I'm talking more than once a day. I told him I wouldn't spy on him any more but I can't help it!!

Jealous of My Husband's Porn. HELP!

Thu, 05/11/2006 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I recently found out that my husband has been using porn sites quite extensively. These sites appear to be about hooking up with sexually likeminded people, and his "profiles" state explicitly that he is looking for someone. I spoke to him about this, and he assures me that it is only fantasy, and that I shouldn't over analyze it.

My Wife Feels Guilty Looking at Porn

Wed, 01/01/2003 - 05:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I love to look at porn. My wife likes to look at times too but feels guilty. We feel like it is a sin, but enjoy it so much. Do you think porn can ruin a marriage? If I look at porn I feel so guilty. I just love my wife and family so much. Sometimes when my wife finds out I look at porn she is so hurt. Why do men struggle with porn so much. I wish I could just not look at it. Do a lot of men struggle with this? -- J

Dear J,