Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
We're Emily and Ju, two new bloggers for the site who will be bringing you posts about a number of things, including genderqueer and trans identities, kink, porn, and the intersections between these things.
Though we have different identities and come from different cultural backgrounds, we both share a certain understanding of how our cultures repress the sexuality of women and queers of all genders. As such, we'll always try to bring a strong intersectional feminist analysis to our writings.
So you can get to know us a bit better, we'll take a moment to introduce ourselves individually !
Can't you just see Cameron and Arod f*cking in front of their flat screen - I wonder what they like to watch:
Just a few personal thought here, so please don’t shoot me
down in flames. I see nothing
wrong in adult non-violent porn per se but I think it does often send out the
wrong signals:
It often suggests that most of us climax through constant
thrusting alone;
It can lead to suggest that we are expected to make very strange
noises during sex;
Condoms are rarely seen so the safe sex message is not there;
Lube is hardly ever seen to be used, even for anal suggesting
that it will just slide in;
Foreplay – what’s that?
I was surfing the web this evening, and I found this comment posted on a forum.
Dodson and Ross tackle the slut stigma and answer all your questions on threesomes, cheating, vibrator addiction, porn, and eating cum.
Dear Dr. Betty,
My husband looks at beautiful women and porn a lot on the internet. We have a normal sex life. I'm 65 years old and attractive for my age and do just about everything sexual with him. He'll even look at women and porn after we have had sex. I'm insecure about this. I'm talking more than once a day. I told him I wouldn't spy on him any more but I can't help it!!
Dear Betty,
I recently found out that my husband has been using porn sites quite extensively. These sites appear to be about hooking up with sexually likeminded people, and his "profiles" state explicitly that he is looking for someone. I spoke to him about this, and he assures me that it is only fantasy, and that I shouldn't over analyze it.
Dear Betty,
I love to look at porn. My wife likes to look at times too but feels guilty. We feel like it is a sin, but enjoy it so much. Do you think porn can ruin a marriage? If I look at porn I feel so guilty. I just love my wife and family so much. Sometimes when my wife finds out I look at porn she is so hurt. Why do men struggle with porn so much. I wish I could just not look at it. Do a lot of men struggle with this? -- J
Dear J,