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Marking My Body With a Stamp of Love

Sun, 09/04/2011 - 06:54
Submitted by Marisa Black

I gasped as the needle took its first bite. In an instant, I was propelled back eleven years, when I had last experienced this sensation. The stinging waves synced with the buzzing sound, and I was soon lulled into a headspace of surrender.

Lying on that table, my face buried in the familiar smell of the pillow brought from home, I smiled, thinking of Jenny.

“I’m not much of a pain slut anymore,” she had once told me. A pain slut? That was the first time I’d encountered the term. I could understand the concept, intellectually. I could understand craving the endorphin rush. But the pain itself?

Help! Painful Clit Stopping Me From Orgasm

Mon, 08/23/2010 - 21:58
Submitted by demecat

Hi,

I have an issue that is stopping me from having an orgasm. My clit is very very sensitive. While the pleasure builds and I naturally lubricate, my clit gets more and more sensitive to the point where it hurts so much that I (or my partner) has to stop because the pain cuts through the pleasure. The super sensitivity doesn't just end there though. I get it inside too. There is nothing medically wrong with me (I've had all the swabs and tests), I'm just really sensitive. Does anyone else have this problem and if so, do you have any strategies that might help me overcome it?

I also have a bit of an embarressing reflex when I (or my partner) hits 'the right spot'. My leg twitches! Please tell me I'm not the only one so I can get over the embarressment!

Too Rough?

Fri, 08/20/2010 - 06:35
Submitted by 8765

Hello everyone,

So heres some background information, im 17 years old, a virgin, and have very fair sensitive skin.

More on Orgasmic Birth and Some Critique of a Ph.D.

Mon, 08/17/2009 - 16:02
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Here is another link to a Ph.D. sexologist, Danielle Harel, who did her dissertation on sexualizing labor and birth.

I wanted to make her info available, but I want to comment on what I consider to be oversimplifications to the concept of increased arousal and increased stimulation in several of her statements. This is getting into the minutia of sexual technique and any time you move down into the details, I consider them advanced sex concepts. As Betty often says to me, "Goddess is very often in the details."

Pain and a funny scent after sex?

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Fri, 07/24/2009 - 13:21
Submitted by Petunia

Do any other women get stomach cramping after sex? What about a funny scent after anal sex?

Why does it hurt?

Thu, 10/09/2008 - 08:01
Submitted by Dodo

Hi,

Me & my partners favourite position is causing me serious problems.

Its the best position for me to orgasm purely from penetrive sex, but immediately after we stop, I'm in excruciating pain in my stomach for about 10 minutes. Sometimes its so bad I feel sick and cant move but it always ends in me having to rush to the toilet for a number two. After which, I feel fine.

Is this normal??

Its beginning to become a pain now as I have to just sit on the loo for ten minutes as soon as we finish, which isnt very nice for either of us.

I'm sure the solution would be to not use this position, but its so good at the time and I just want to know why it happens?

Help!!