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Sex Is Enjoyable But No Orgasm

Wed, 04/29/2009 - 21:40
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello!

I sure hope you can help! I am 20 years old and have never been able to orgasm, or even feel like I have come close! I have tried to take advice from friends (since that always works great), but still with no result. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have been having sex for 3. He is very understanding and tells me to just relax, and masturbate, and we try all kinds of different things. He is determined to make me cum. But when I masturbate I get bored and tired, and in sex if we keep at it for too long it just becomes too uncomfortable for me! I still enjoy sex even if I don't orgasm, and my BF would stimulate me all night if he had too, but I start to feel bad. Any suggestions? Thanks!

Can Nerves Block Your Orgasms?

Thu, 01/22/2009 - 14:14
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am 24 years old and although I have been masturbating for a few years,have had some wonderful partners, and don't really have any guilt around sex, I just can't seem to reach orgasm. I have actually managed to get much closer with a partner than alone -- to the point where I feel 99.99999% there and my body just won't let go. I'm wondering if it could be some kind of mental block? I just don't know what it is.

Boyfriend Can't Give Me an Orgasm

Mon, 01/05/2009 - 19:10
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I'm 21 years old and have been masturbating for a number of years but have never been able to orgasm - no matter what I do or how long I do it for. I do have a boyfriend and have already explained to him that the big O doesn't seem to happen for me. However, I think he's beginning to feel disheartened that after a number of months with him I haven't had an orgasm.

I Only Orgasm by Rubbing Clit Against Things & Rocking Pelvis

Sun, 06/01/2008 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello Betty,

My childhood masturbation technique has left me a bit stunted. I am so used to only masturbating in one position that I have a hard time doing it in another position. When I was a child I learned that I would feel a great sensation when I had something in between my legs. Now when I want to masturbate, the easiest way for me is to put something underneath me, like if I put something on a chair that will stimulate my clitoris, and move my pelvis around in a certain way, I can get off in about 3 minutes. My problem is that now with a partner, I have a hard time getting turned on with him trying to stimulate me with his hand. How do I re-learn to masturbate so that I can come when he tries it with his hand? What can I do?