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Oral Sex, Plus Scalp Massage, Equals...

Sun, 12/26/2010 - 07:57
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Continuing with my sex massage concept I layed out in my previous post, I said then that you could do it with oral sex as well as vaginal and anal penetration. Here's what happened with a past lover who especially loved receiving oral sex while I gave her a scalp massage, but "received" the other way from what that usually means.

Cassandra's Sexy Mysterious Eyes, Part One

Fri, 10/30/2009 - 12:27
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life, in erotica form, because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better through sex education, consulting, and coaching, maybe for the
first time in their lives.

Cassandra was tired of drunken sex. More accurately, drunken guys that she ended up having sex with. Why did she, or they, always have to go there for sex to be passably pleasurable, she once told me. We flirted over chat. Sent dripping-sexy texts to each other, of what we wanted to do to each other. Cassandra has long, perfectly straight shining mahogany hair. Fair strawberries and cream skin, and big, jade-green eyes. Made bigger by how she often does her makeup. Very cute, small face too.

How Can I Learn to Deep Throat?

Fri, 10/16/2009 - 08:36
Submitted by Betty and Carlin

Betty answered this question, I posted it, and 1,000 of you read it within a few hours. It was a natural topic for our Friday podcast. 

Loss of Erection While Putting On A Condom

Wed, 10/14/2009 - 09:58
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Here's a link to a forum question here on dodsonandross.com where a woman says she has a problem with her partner getting condoms on and losing his erection in the process. My advice is sound, hot, and sexually advanced if I do say so myself. The info centers around how stopping the hot action to mechanically put on a condom can make erections soften.

Even if you dont have this issue, the tips I give will improve your condom application moments and others as well....

Eric Amaranth's Blog

How Can I Learn to Deep Throat?

Betty Dodson's picture
Sat, 10/03/2009 - 07:38
Submitted by Betty Dodson

i am very sexually stimulated when i am sucking on my husbands penis... but very frustrated that i cant deep throat, swallow, go down without choking a real quick turn off.

Doggy Style or Rear Entry? & Safe Sex Blowjobs, Part One

Sat, 09/19/2009 - 15:08
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the
first time in their lives. 

It wasn't the first time Lora and I'd been together. We'd played with just gloved hands and condomed blowjobs once before. She sent me a text a week later saying,

"Heya-- you got a compliment from the bf today. He says my bj skills have improved notably since you. Kudos. :)"

Olivia's Erotica On Sex With Eric Amaranth, Part Two

Mon, 08/10/2009 - 17:35
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

My incredible lover Olivia wrote this based on our second night
together for my blog. I wanted to have a lover's perspective on the sex
we shared and because it's hot. Olivia's a great erotica writer too! Check out part one here. If you would like to learn more about Young Living Essential Oils, as used below, contact me .

Boyfriend NOT into Eating Pussy

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Mon, 06/15/2009 - 14:15
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty and Carlin,

First off I'd like to thank you for awesomeness. I've just discovered your site and found it educational and informative but most importantly not scary! I'm a 24-year-old female in a long term relationship with a 23-year-old male. Our sex life is pretty great except he is not keen on giving me oral sex.

29% of Men Not Doing Their Job?

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Tue, 12/09/2008 - 22:46
Submitted by Miss Moonlight

According to an article in the Jan 2009 UK edition of Cosmo,, a Durex survey has revealed that 29% of men will not give oral.  For starters I always wonder about how accurate surveys such as this are; it's hardly street corner "excuse me, can you spare a moment" stuff.  Also, I have only met the other 71%, not that any man who refused oral would get very far with me!!  BUT if this figure is true I find it quite depressing, what do others think?

Can My Clit Loose Sensitivity From My Vibrator?

Betty Dodson's picture
Fri, 03/14/2008 - 23:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I'm 44 years old and in recent years my sex drive as been extremely high. I've only had a handful of sexual partners in my lifetime, as I started rather late in life. But believe me, I've been making up for lost time. I began masturbating at a young age - perhaps 8 or 9, and have always masturbated (primarily with my fingers). But in the last 2 years I acquired some toys and now use a vibrator often. However, when having sex, I don't usually cum easily, if at all. Perhaps because I'm with much younger guys that don't realize you need to warm a girl up first? Or perhaps because how my pussy is shaped (I have large labia majora)? Either way, I'm not certain.