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I Feel a Tickling Sensation & Stop Before I Orgasm

Wed, 04/06/2011 - 13:52
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

I am a twenty year old female and have been having sex with my boyfriend for about eight months. I can't seem to reach orgasm from manual stimulation by myself or with him. I even bought a vibrator and used it hoping to experience the big "O." I can feel myself getting close (or what I think is close) but it is like a tickling sensation and I have to stop before I feel any kind of release. I usually get sore for a couple days after I masturbate or after my boyfriend stimulates me. I've tried everything I can think of to orgasm but I just can't get myself to do it! I don't feel l womanly because I cannot orgasm. Help me, please!

B

Dear B,

How Can I Orgasm During Sex?

Tue, 01/06/2009 - 20:41
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty. I have once in my live had an orgasm while having sex. but after a lot of sexual and physical abuse I never had it again. Im married now and my husband has tried everything. When he uses his hand and rub my clitoris I do get a feeling but not that don't stop, go on forever, mind-blowing feeling. And my clitoris hurts aswell after trying for almost a half an hour to just get something! i've also gone for a papsmeer to make sure nothing physically is wrong. how can I get an orgasm again while having sex with my husband?

Boyfriend Can't Give Me an Orgasm

Mon, 01/05/2009 - 19:10
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I'm 21 years old and have been masturbating for a number of years but have never been able to orgasm - no matter what I do or how long I do it for. I do have a boyfriend and have already explained to him that the big O doesn't seem to happen for me. However, I think he's beginning to feel disheartened that after a number of months with him I haven't had an orgasm.

How Do I Tell Him I'm Faking My Orgasms?

Mon, 01/05/2009 - 19:06
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I've been in a relationship for 4 years and I still haven't had my first orgasm. I've been faking it for all this time. How do I tell my partner and how do I get my first orgasm?

Had Orgasms as a Teen but Now Nothing

Tue, 01/15/2008 - 05:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

My name is Katie and I'm 23 years old. I used to be highly orgasmic as a teenager and always wanted sex. For the last several years, however, I've experienced so many problems that I just don't know what to do: chronic vaginitis for two years and extreme dryness, and most recently I haven't been able to orgasm at all with my boyfriend or by myself with a vibrator (on high settings it can take over 45 minutes) and I never want sex.