Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
You asked and we answered. Any woman can have multiple orgasms - know that there's a build up between each one. Ride the wave, baby.
Hi Dr. Betty!
I can't have a second orgasm. I've heard that some women release a chemical in the brain right after one orgasm that just shuts off sexual interest. ?? When I try to go for a second orgasm, I can't get my clit interested. I'm with you on fantasy... it really gets me there the first time... but I can't find any way to turn back on after the first TOTALLY ABRUPTLY drops off the arrousal cliff.
I'm guessing you'll say I just have to go slower and keep searching for what might feel good after? Maybe shift off clit to vaginal or breast stim for a moment... keep looking because somewhere, there is a path in my body that leads to a second or third whahoo???
I'm sure this question has been brought up several times but I have to ask for myself...I spent 2.5 years in an abusive relationship when the main goal of sex was for my boyfriend to orgasm, not me. I was just used to letting him use me to get his nut off. I thought I was passed that when I had sex with my next partner and had orgasms no problem. Now I'm in another serious relationship, my next relationship since the bad one, and I can't consistently have an orgasm. Sometimes I can and it's great but I can only do it once.