masturbation pattern

Can Orgasm By Myself but Clit Dead When Touched/Licked by Boyfriend

Tue, 07/14/2009 - 19:24
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I can orgasm through masturbation but not through oral or vaginal sex. Because I masturbate on my stomach, I can't do it during sex or have my boyfriend do it for me during sex. Sometimes during sex, I try to touch my clitoris but often during that time, it is insensitive. As it is sometimes during oral sex. Any suggestions? Is it mental? I do enjoy sex and want it - I just can't orgasm.

I'm frustrated when there is no sensation when my clitoris is touched. Thanks!

Dear E,