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I Want to Be Able to Come Using Only My Fingers

Wed, 09/21/2011 - 13:46
Submitted by Betty Dodson

First, thank you for all you have done to help women... I am a woman in my 50s, divorced about three years, who has experienced a huge leap in my libido after the divorce (a little estrogen cream helped!). After of many years of no sex and orgasm, I began using a vibrator, and was able to come that way. However, I can't/won't use it with my partner.

Two Women's Successes While Sex Life Coaching with Eric Amaranth

Sat, 06/18/2011 - 13:40
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

A piece of my day for you all, here are two snippets of emails between me and two individual women sex life coaching clients. The first is from "Lilly" and the second is from "Tara" (both names changed). Lily's feedback is about big successes with her manual sex skills for men that I coached her on while Tara's is a longer piece on finding the way to more intense pleasure and orgasm via sex life coaching since discovering D&R and also some feedback on what she'd recently created for herself. I jam back and forth with clients to the extent they feel comfortable on their progress with what I teach them. You'll find my thoughts and reflections after each section. Then, look in the comments section below! Tara comments on some of my thoughts.

Lily:

Doggy Style or Rear Entry? & Safe Sex Blowjobs, Part Three

Sun, 09/27/2009 - 18:36
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a desire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better through sex education and coaching, maybe for the
first time in their lives. 

Doggy Style or Rear Entry? & Safe Sex Blowjobs, Part Two

Sun, 09/20/2009 - 22:58
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the
first time in their lives.

 

Lora asked me how the lighting was. Brighter? Lower? I told her it was just fine. That I wanted to see all of her low-lit body. Lora and I don't kiss. Well, not yet. We do share generous portions of warmth and desire for each other.

Get No Pleasure From My Hands Anymore :(

Thu, 08/13/2009 - 18:51
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I'm 23 and unable to orgasm. My story is a little different from most women who cannot orgasm. I've been masturbating my entire life--and that's where I think the problem is. Ever since I can remember, I've been masturbating. When I was little, it was natural for me to keep my hand over my vulva. However, I never orgasmed and didn't really experience sexual pleasure--it was just a comfort. Now, I get no pleasure out of using my hands. The closest I came to an orgasm was after watching lesbian porn and using a vibrator...but it just never happened.

Kara's Alluring Forms, Part 2 of 3

Mon, 02/09/2009 - 15:20
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

We settled down on the bed and took each other. More blurs of sensation and kiss; loving when a woman fondles my body with the same hunger I have for hers. Then I remember resting my head on the inside of her open thigh. I moved my nose to her black lace panties-covered mound and just breathed her in, took in her scent, then smiled inside when my mouth watered and jaw relaxed a little more. She let me indulge as long as I wanted before I felt an impulse to ask her if she was ready to let her black lace fall to the floor.

“Yes…” said Kara.