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Lube!

Thu, 08/20/2009 - 00:03
Submitted by danananadananana

Hello all!

I have recently started having sex and it seems that I do get quite wet, so much so that my partner slips out.  Should I be adding lubrication on top of this or is this enough?

What is your Favorite Lube?

Thu, 07/09/2009 - 07:03
Submitted by Grizz

Our absolute favorite water based lube is SYLK. It is WONDERFUL, and Sylk feels just like a woman's natural vaginal lubrication. We have tried dozens of lubes and this is by far the BEST. Long lasting does not dry out, not greasy. Shop around for the best price, available only on the internet. WebVitamins.com or WellnessAlternatives.com may have the best prices.

https://www.sylkonline.com/

It is made from the Kiwi fruit vine extract. (the Sensation Variety is NFG) Far superior to anything made by KY, Grapeseed Oil, Almond Oil, and other sexual lubes we have ordered from XXX stores. Concentrated, just a few drops will work wonders.

What is your most favorite Lube?

Grizz

Can a Woman Get Too Wet?

Mon, 06/29/2009 - 17:55
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello,

I am 42 years old and was raised by parents who did not inform me about sex at all. Believe it or not at this age I am learning as I go. I am an only child and such topics were not discussed it was too embarrasing to them. Unfortunately my mother passed away from cancer when I was 15 so I missed getting what question and knowledge from her was lost. Then when I lost my virginity the experience truthfully was less then what I expected.

Need Help with Penetration

Fri, 04/10/2009 - 15:51
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Oh Goddess divine Betty, I have problems with penetration. I've been sexually active for four years, and it's always been an issue. It really hurts when a guy enters me, and I feel really tight. But after he thrusts a little while the pain goes away and I enjoy it. I'm wondering if I have a tilted uterus-because I've read that you can have problems with sex if you do. I also cannot use tampons because of the same penetration factor-it's agony wearing one. Any ideas? Thanks in advance.

Dear JJ,

Dryness Turns Off Fiance

Fri, 01/16/2009 - 15:32
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty

I have been engaged for a year now and the last 4 months we are having problems in bed and we hardly do it either. I think our problems started after 2 miscarriages and my fiance always compliments big boobs and ass when we watch tv. Kinda has made me insecure of myself and ever since both of my miscarriage, my boobs went down to A cup from being a full B all my life.

Anything to Fix Extreme Vaginal Soreness

Mon, 11/24/2008 - 13:59
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Let me first say that I love everything you have done for the sex-positive community. Your hard work and dedication are inspirational to me!

I seem to be having a problem which has never before arisen. I am currently dating a man with an incredibly large penis (about 9-10'' long, and about 5" around), and as a fairly petite lady, this sometimes creates some discomfort for me. After sex, my inner lips become extremely sore and swollen, to the point where they puff out from my outer lips like little balloons, and I experience general vaginal soreness for 2-3 days afterward.

I'm Too Wet!

Sat, 03/15/2008 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi,

I recently became acquainted with your website and your work after reading "The Whole Lesbian Sex Book." I have a question for you that I've always been too nervous to talk about with anyone besides my lover. When I'm fooling around with a girl, I get really lubricated, and it just continues during sex to the point where I'm not really even turned on anymore, or even that sensitive, but still sopping wet. Is there anything I can do about this?