Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
As I indicated in my previous blog post, a past married couple, who were sex life coaching clients of mine last winter, told me all about how their relationship of just over twenty years was revitalized (and getting better) due in large part to the talk-teach coaching sessions the wife, Nancy (name changed), had with me.
I was sitting one day going over past client contact info, then contacting some of them, seeing how they were doing. I like to keep in touch here and there to see how my sex life coaching helps or sustains their happiness over time. I texted her after being out of contact since January or February and she wrote back with:
"We're doing great!"
I replied: "Do tell!"
Nancy: "He's totally in love with me."
Below is part two in this series, which documents the email communications between me and sex life coaching clients, Ken and Joyce, who are[i] married partners and gave me permission to blog on them. This is a great example of one way I can work with married couples, but more importantly it shows Joyce's take on the hot sex she had with her hubby that Ken wrote on. You'll see her feedback to me: "[b]This is real, this is marriage/life changing. I am excited to see Ken at the end of the day. I am in love with him again."
Cashback is an amazing british film about Ben, an aspiring artist, who develops insomnia
after a painful breakup with his girlfriend, Suzy. To take his mind off
of Suzy and to deal with the extra hours he has recently gained, Ben
begins working at a local supermarket, where he meets colourful co-workers. Among them is his colleague Sharon, on whom he quickly develops a crush. As his personal means to escape the boredom inherent in the night
shift, Ben lets his imagination run wild. In particular, he imagines
that he can stop time so that he can walk around in a world that is
After years of being tortured for not being pretty and too fat I've come believe those things. I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I've never even kissed anyone. I lied to so many of my friends. I was known for being TOO out there and extremely comfortable and proud with my sexuality. I am and if my friends found out this is how I felt towards sex they would be shocked! Since middle school I've gained A LOT of weight so people don't find me physically attractive. I find myself so disgusting, just the thought of someone touching me, looking at me while they're inside of me, or even loving me makes me uncomfortable and sometimes disgusted. Although I think about sex a lot! I masturbate probably 3 to 4 times a week.
For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of
us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that
they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to
feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the
first time in their lives.
This
blog entry is based on email feedback I received from Samantha on the
first of the nights and days we shared together. Enjoy. Here's part one for those just joining us.
Dear Eric,
Since you are considered an expert on these matters, i had wanted to
ask you whether or not, based on your own opinion, you thought love (or
being in a 'serious relationship') enhances sex...whether or not you
think it brings a heightened level to the experience, etc.
Because in my experience, it doesn't, and this runs counter to what society seems
to tell us. But hey, this is something i can ask you about another time perhaps, maybe over a drink one of these days.